Ok, I'm confused.
2 months ago my ENFP bf broke up with me, giving me various of reasons, the main one being, he simply wanted to 'be single'.
I was having some issues before we broke up, because we started our relationship around drugs and so as I quit, 2/3's of our relationship was spent 'recovering' from the drug taking, meaning depression, anxiety for both of us but me mainly being the one that carried the heavier load of the depression.
He is the one that asked me out and adored me like hell, spending almost every second with each other as we could.
So be broke up with me 2 months ago, and I spent that two months overseas, recovering from the break up and going to a psychologist and during that time I recovered quite well, even though I was a mess over the relationship for a majority of my vacation.
So I came back last week, not even expecting anything from him, trying to get used to the idea of being friends, since I'm really good friends with his twin brother. I went over his place to say hello and I guess I've gone through some changes, like losing weight, becoming more happy, like I was when he was first interested in me and I guess I've recovered 100% from the mess I got myself into.
So anyways, after meeting them briefly and watching a movie together, the next night his brother invites me over that night and before leaving, to get to their place, my ex tells me that he wonders whether he has made a mistake by breaking up with me and all I said was 'all is not lost, let's just enjoy ourselves and get to know each other better' and so when I went to their place, he was quite concerned for me, watching out for me since I had drank too much and he made sure that I was ok, etc.
The next morning, at 8 am, he rings, telling me that he wants to hang out and so i go over to his and as we're lying on his bed, he tells me that he can't deny that he still does like me and that the previous night, he was thinking about things and that he hasn't met someone like me, whom he gets along with so well, who he can relate to and that he wanted to give things another shot, but I probably wasn't interested. I told him I was and then he said then he asked me if I'd like to give our relationship another shot and I agreed and he said that he wanted to take things slow.
We came to an unspoken agreement, that we wouldn't tell everyone that we were dating again until things settled down (as he said it).
So I've been hanging out with him and things feel good, we're both much calmer and now we're both past our mental issues.
Only thing that is bothering me is that over the past 2 months, he has become quite independent and I don't mind, but it feels as if he doesn't want to see me as much as he wanted to before and I understand that he needs space because us spending so much time together previously, was over the top, but it's driving me crazy because I can't quite tell whether he really likes me but just wants his space, or this space is a hint that perhaps he doesn't really care for me.
I'm supporting his wish, like leaving his house when I don't really want to leave, just so he doesn't feel suffocated.
One thing I've noticed is that our sex life is much better than it was, he's more emotionally intimate, but I don't know if that's just me looking into things way too much.
Our relationship feels much healthier, but from an ENFP perspective, I just want to know what you think about this?
You like your space, but even with your space, how can another tell if you really like them? How do you show it?
Is he into me? Any advice or similar stories?
Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated.