Hello all female ENFPs!
I am a male ENFJ, 17 years old and single, and I need your advice. :) I met an ENFP at a high school speech and debate tournament in Alabama around two weeks ago. That's when I met her, and wow. Our eyes met, and I think fireworks lit off in my brain. I have met several amazingly smart girls like her, but she is one-of-a-kind. I have never met anyone like her. I only got to know here for two days, but I can't stop thinking about her. I prayed about this, and I know I'm not crazy. I definitely fell head-over-heels for her. We keep in touch through Skype and texting, and that just accelerates my infatuation. Because she's just so amazing, I'd like to describe her just a little bit.
I don't fall for a girl for her external looks, so I'll skip that part. I'm enamorated by a girl's mind and heart. :) She's incredibly intelligent, unlike most girls I've ever met. We are both philosophy nerds, and I have some really complex ideas that some people don't seem to get. :/ But wow, she gets them in an instant and turns it into another idea I hadn't even pondered. I feel like we can complete and compliment each other in so many areas. That and so many countless things about her just calls for a high intelligence. What's even more beautiful is her heart. She loves younger children. She's incredibly kind, sweet, and sincere. I could go on and on about her; her heart and mind are just incredibly infatuating. All I want to do is just do anything for her; she certainly deserves a great guy to be there for her whenever she's in need. But, here's the catch, she lives in Florida (originally from Georgia), and I live in Texas. So... Hence begs the question:
Ladies, if you are an ENFP, and a young man like myself lives far away and is interested in you, what would you expect from him? What would you like to seem him do for you? As an ENFJ, I know the iNtuitive Feelers have a very high attraction with other iNtuitive Feelers, unlike most others that follow the rule "opposites attract". I have no doubt I would be able to meet the standards that ENFPs hold for young men that are interested in them. But, details would definitely help. :) ENFP ladies, what would you expect from a young man? What do you need from a potential boyfriend/girlfriend, especially if he lives 1000 miles away? Thank you for your feedback. Sorry to start a relationship-oriented thread; I understand some of you may be getting tired of these. But, I thought here would be the best place to ask my question. :)