Typical conversation between me and my ESFJ ex girlfriend-
Me "Hey, I'm off out to do X."
Her /sighs "Why?"
Me "Because I like to do it."
Her "EVERYONE said to me that its stupid, do you want people to call you stupid?"
Me "I don't care really, I'm doing it for me not them."
Her "You don't care what they think?"
Around this point she'd run away and I'd be left trying to work out what I'd done wrong.
My issue with ESFJ's is-
They care what others think of them.
They lie to you about stuff rather than be honest.
They can't keep their noses out.
The don't appriciate lists of 3.
(The last one was a joke.)