This is my 1st posting.
I have searched, "esfp infp", in this forum but have not found any thread on it and decided to start on one.
I am an INFP (and sometimes an ENFP, depending on the mood when I take the Jung personality test). Actually I am interested in this lady who is an ESFP (and sometimes ISFP - depending on her mood when she takes the Jung personality test too).
We are heading off well, but I found her really laid back! It seems to me that she is interested in the present only, not bothering to think of the future. And she is conventional too. I wanted to try to head for my dream, but she will suggest that I should not do it. I should go for bread over love.
There seems to be so much of differences (opposite) in us.
ESFP <--> INFP (ENFP)
Laid Back <--> Like to Work
Present <--> Present & Future
Love to sleep <--> Sleep is a waste of time
Love R&B, Full Metal songs <--> Prefer soothing, peaceful music
Positiveness <--> Negativeness
Hate to plan <--> Research & Planning come first
Careless and take things too easily <--> More careful, and take things into responsibilty
Happy person <--> Well... less of it
Tends to be the center of attraction <--> Shy away from it
Eloquent & Charming <--> I feel I am less of that too
Love to watch TV, especially drama <--> Love to watch only documentary, and self-help programmes only, dislike drama
Are ESFP & INFP unable to "click"?