Gulenko's Erotic Attitudes

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This is a discussion on Gulenko's Erotic Attitudes within the Articles forums, part of the Announcements category; THIS IS COPY PASTED FROM: The 16 Types.info - Socionics and Oldham personality styles thoughts? comments? There's 4 attitudes, Careful, ...

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    Gulenko's Erotic Attitudes

    THIS IS COPY PASTED FROM: The 16 Types.info - Socionics and Oldham personality styles
    thoughts? comments?


    There's 4 attitudes, Careful, Aggressor, Victim and Infantile. There's 4 socionics types in each attitude. From personal musings i would rate it as rather accurate and i'm totally the Victim and I've used this to easily type all my friends. For example, if you don't know whether you'd be INTp or INTj then look at Victim and Infantile and it should help you decide. Anyways tell me what you think"


    GULENKO'S EROTIC ATTITUDES

    Careful
    - ESTj
    - ISTp
    - ESFj
    - ISFp

    Aggressor
    - ESTp
    - ISTj
    - ESFp
    - ISFj

    Victim
    - ENTj
    - INTp
    - ENFj
    - INFp

    Infantile
    - ENTp
    - INTj
    - ENFp
    - INFj


    Careful

    Woman
    She is inclined to sponsor the partner of a male. Clings to weak, but to intelligent men who submit to it in daily affairs. It is pleasant for her to protect, support, encourage them. Similar qualities of character which in mass consciousness do not cause respect for persons of a male, she forgives or considers quite comprehensible.

    Man
    Skilled and close to an inner world of the woman the partner, able to gain her patronizing caring. In the love game he very much appreciates female tenderness and vulnerability, and waits for admiration of its life experience and skill.

    Compatibility
    The "Careful" woman. Does not accept from the man strong, but rough lask. The power erotic game deprived to a prelude oppresses its sexuality, therefore men-supermen disappoint her. The behaviour compatible with it of the man should be infantile, i.e. timid, ?-attracting. Such woman loves caress which are expressed in gentle, childly weak touches to erogenous zones.

    Attitudes with Victim its man too do not suit, as it ?, dodges and provokes her surprise forces and push away. Attitudes with identical on psychsexualism to aspirations Careful the man eventually disappoint her, though, basically, she has nothing against. Sooner or later among comfort with which her have surrounded, she will feel lack of spirituality.

    Aggressor

    Woman
    All the time she tries to compete with the man, including in erotic attitudes. She is inclined to irony, sneers at an opposite floor. The man in any business likes to feel more competent, than. During love game expects from the man of ingratiations, ostentatious weakness, emotional instability.

    Man
    This sotsiotip has propensity to violent ? the woman. In love game likes to show struggle. Presumes to itself roughness, sometimes causes women pain - both physical, and moral. Expects from the woman of submission to force.

    Compatibility
    The "Aggressive" woman. Searches for object for the imperous and active erotic actions. Most of all she accepts the man which behaves with it obediently, but also whimsical. Then she has an occasion to aggression. Victim men idolizes such a woman and at the same time is rather afraid of her. His behaviour can be compared to behaviour of the page which entirely devotes itself to service to a "fine lady". Constant game - the best medicine for satiation.

    In attitudes with Infantile the man it will not have not enough game humility from them. His unwillingness to adapt to aggressive attacks should to not put such union on a side of break. Attitudes with "Aggressor" of a male, on the one hand, flatter it and urge on its passion, but, on the other hand, and push away, as do not lead to to a desirable victory. Therefore they can make only variable success. Careful the man will irritate its attitude to it as to the small child which she perceives as humiliation.


    Victim

    Woman
    An ideal of such woman - physically strong the man, reminding supermen from the American insurgents. She wishes to test on herself its force, to resist to his impact, to feel a victim. In love games prefers the different forms of an antagonism kindling passion of the partner. In women of this type are at times immanently inherent masochistic features. The truth is far from being all from them give itself in it the report.

    Man
    Idealizes ? the woman. His is arranged under its tastes, respects in her strong-willed qualities. In behaviour that emphasizes the dependence and ? he is pulled out from under the control. In attitudes with the woman he subconsciously expects orders, dirty tricks, reproaches. ? receiving similar reactions, involuntarily provokes their display.

    Compatibility
    "Victim" the woman. Plays on the weakness, vulnerability or a disorganization, provoking thus Aggressive the man to active and resolute actions was able. In love games for her strong embraces and force of a man's body have the greatest value, conceding which she shows the humility to will of the man.

    Men of Careful type seem to her convenient, but too boring partners, and Infantile she in soul counts and at all weak-willed weaklings. With men similar to such as Victim the woman enters in complex, with implied sense of the attitude, competing with them sacrifices and demanding for it of special privileges. Quite often similar games exhaust both literally.


    Infantile

    Woman
    The ideal of this woman is kind and skilled, well adapted by a life the man, is usually more senior than her on age. At the presence of such men she feels the little girl, almost in all dependent from him. In love game the preference gives the psychological factor - to a heart-to-heart talk, having music, creation of conditions for a relaxation. Above all appreciates condescension and care.

    Man
    Naive in everyday affairs, expects from the woman of business and emotional support. Emphasizes the attention, the ruined abilities, impracticality to vital struggle. Respects in women experience and responsiveness to his problems.

    Compatibility
    The "Infantile" woman. In an erotic life of the woman of this type the greatest value have thin caress and psychologism of attitudes. She, not having any special intentions, shows the acts fragility and children's naivety. The infantile woman easily accepts affairs and hobbies of the partner with which she sympathizes. In love games she with pleasure takes up the initiative Careful men, showing own refinement and imagination.

    On supermen, i.e. men of Aggressive type, such woman, certainly, pays attention, but to approach with them is afraid because of them instinktivnosti and gaucheries. Man Victims such as her arranges only in part: romantically begins, but then enters in bewilderment by the demonstration of sufferings and unpredictability. With men of identical Infantile type she will necessarily feel discomfort from ? cares of its daily needs. In such pair the degree of alienation will slowly grow.
    Last edited by starri; 02-05-2009 at 12:53 PM. Reason: minor punctuation for easier reading



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    the word erotic immediately drew me to this post. The first thing I noticed after reading it is that you can switch to the next option (ex. careful-aggressor, aggressor-careful, victim-infantile, infantile-victim) simply by changing the E/I function.

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    I'd fit into the "Infantile" category, or the "Careful" category, based on the description, but I find the label "infantile" somewhat insulting.




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    Quote Originally Posted by mcgooglian View Post
    the word erotic immediately drew me to this post. The first thing I noticed after reading it is that you can switch to the next option (ex. careful-aggressor, aggressor-careful, victim-infantile, infantile-victim) simply by changing the E/I function.
    Ditto.
    And then I stopped reading.


    On a second look, I'd agree with the ISTP. I'm not a lover so I like to make my way tentatively.

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    Quote Originally Posted by snail View Post
    I'd fit into the "Infantile" category, or the "Careful" category, based on the description, but I find the label "infantile" somewhat insulting.
    Yes. That suggests a little too much immaturity. I wouldn't say those types are infantile, just more fragile.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ArenaHomme View Post
    Ditto.
    And then I stopped reading.


    On a second look, I'd agree with the ISTP. I'm not a lover so I like to make my way tentatively.

    I'm pretty much the same way, except i tend to avoid it altogether.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mcgooglian View Post
    I'm pretty much the same way, except i tend to avoid it altogether.
    I'd be lying if I didn't say it gets hard sometimes. But it's usually worth it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ArenaHomme View Post
    I'd be lying if I didn't say it gets hard sometimes. But it's usually worth it.
    I tend to rationalize this kind of stuff and focus on the fact that at my age, it's most likely not gonna work out anyways, so why bother put in the effort?

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    Marry your career and all will turn out fine.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ArenaHomme View Post
    Marry your career and all will turn out fine.
    That I shall do and we shall have many kids.


     
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