Hmmm...in a way, my love map was influenced by how I grew up. It was actually from a lack of a father figure which helped me develop a view of what my ideal partner should look like. My SO is a 3w4 so he's very career focused-but he still can step back from it and realize he needs to relax and take time for family too.
But, I do notice similar traits between my SO and my dad that I picked up on after reading this. So maybe there is truth to this after all! Definitely something to think about and look into further.