i have a strange relationship with romance in that i find myself being more "flirty" with guys i'm not actually into... which - honestly, isn't great. and i've been thinking a lot about why that is. i think there's a part of me that in this regard, is able to separate or dissociate myself from my actions. i'll say things not so much out of a personal interest for the other party (a serious one, anyway) but because of its potential for starting a fun repartee. when it comes ...