[B][/B]Good afternoon, dear PersonalityCafe friends!
I was hoping to find some advice in a love triangle I am currently in the middle of. Long-term, I believe love triangles are sad and unhealthy for everyone involved, though there has been open and honest communication between us all, and as of right now, all is well, though some things may be simmering beneath the surface.
To give some details: I am a female INFP, and the INFJ and ENFJ in question are both males.
Updated 06-11-2019 at 03:16 PM by marythecanary
There are 2 ENFJS that I know, let's call them ENFJ1 and ENFJ2.
I've been crushing on ENFJ1 for almost a year but I'm not sure of his intentions or feelings towards me. However ENFJ2 has recently reached out to me and confessed that he has feelings for me and is very persistent no matter how many times I say "No".BUT I just noticed something, the enfj I like and ENFJ2 are both sending me links to websites for our exams and they're both asking dumb questions, as if to start a convo.
I know this question has been asked many times but I can't help but notice that some comments on other asks were from mistyped enfjs. So here are a couple of questions.
~Enfjs are nice to everyone, how do I know if they particularly are crushing on someone?
~Do they run away from their feelings?
~What really attracts an enfj?
~Has any enfj ever liked an infj?
I really need help, because never ever have I ever liked anyone and suddenly this ENFJ just strolls into my life and sweeps me off of my feet and I fell hard, really hard. Now he seems to be avoiding me, I feel like he just wanted to maybe prove to his friends that oh the girl who talks to no guy, yeah well she's my friend. I'm really confused I mean in the beginning he complimented my works, he used to stare at me a lot, secret glances, he even gave me his fav book to read! And now he acts distant,
When taking the test I seem to get a different result on each site I take it on. They are ALWAYS:
ENFP (Which I most closely relate to when reading information about the types and I truly believe this is mine.)
ESFP (Which I may be similar to because I tend to act differently in larger groups of people and people often think of me as ditzy, although I feel like I truly am not... I just tend to get overly excited and hyper around people, also random and I do enjoy the attention that