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by , 10-12-2014 at 03:44 PM (1005 Views)
How can someone move on with their lives without looking back once as to how poorly they treated people? I'm not talking about a guy but "friends." They keep having fun not caring how damaged they did someone who suffers. The only thing I can do is just tell myself to preoccupy my mind with my writing, but if I ever hurt someone in such a way that people hurt me, I know I could not live my life without apologizing. How do they do it?

How do they sit there not caring? Some people say maybe deep down it always haunts them so they portray themselves to have a "fun" time but I really don't think so with the people I once knew. I really think they erase that part of their lives where they double crossed me and I'm the one left with the scars.

I almost turned into a softie with not publishing the story of what Rachel did to me, but every time I check her page she's always out having fun with her long distance boyfriend not having a second thought of how she betrayed me, and Krista continues to like all of Rachel's pictures that I really shouldn't feel bad. Rachel deserves this public shaming. I think Rachel's boyfriend deserves to know who the Real Rachel is: not the fake "nice" one she displays. She's an insecure, jealous little prat who needs people to validate her and she pleases the wrong people.
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  1. Infermiera's Avatar
    I am sorry you were betrayed by your friends. Friendships are really precious to me so I can't help but comment on your blog. From what I've experienced in the past, some people don't really realize the depth of how they've hurt other people. I remember talking to a former friend and telling her how she'd hurt me in the past but I'd forgiven her, she was really surprised because according to her, she thought it was no big deal. There are also some people who thought you've wronged them and therefore feels like you deserve what they did to you so they are not sorry at all. I hope you find better friends than this Rachel.
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  2. theflame's Avatar
    [QUOTE=Infermiera;bt48146]I am sorry you were betrayed by your friends. Friendships are really precious to me so I can't help but comment on your blog. From what I've experienced in the past, some people don't really realize the depth of how they've hurt other people. I remember talking to a former friend and telling her how she'd hurt me in the past but I'd forgiven her, she was really surprised because according to her, she thought it was no big deal. There are also some people who thought you've wronged them and therefore feels like you deserve what they did to you so they are not sorry at all. I hope you find better friends than this Rachel.[/QUOTE]

    Thank you. I agree with you that they don't think it hurts people what they do. She'd do small things that get to me like when three of us hang out, she won't ask me to be in the picture but to take a picture of them two. I think this is my path that I have to write her story and what she did. She always thinks of things as no big deal like being fake friends with the people who made up rumors about me she thinks she can still be a good friend to me talking nice with them and not defending me from their rumors.

    Thank you for sharing your experience. I like when people share me their stories so I know I'm not alone in that I wasn't over-reacting to things.
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