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This is a discussion on Do you change your voice? within the ENFJ Forum - The Givers forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; Originally Posted by drizzy lake There is no authentic voice. Your voice is made to be played with, its basically ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by drizzy lake View Post
    There is no authentic voice. Your voice is made to be played with, its basically an instrument, and that goes for everybody not just vocalists. But I had the same thoughts, so I'm guessing its a common ENFJ issue. You are overly worried about being authentic/not fake, and dominant Fe makes you super aware of your voice and others voices, because thats how we express most of our emotions.
    Thats basically the problem, not that you messed your voice up and lost it.
    Excellent insight! What's more is that @Emancipation you're shifting to be the most genuine you at the moment that your speaking. You aren't just one true self, but an amalgam of different personas. These different versions of yourself aren't merely masks, but aspects that you channel, which is often already well calibrated as a high Fe user. There's very little need to worry about authenticity when you're naturally being the "you" that you need to be at a given moment. The changes of voice are merely symptomatic of this shifting.
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    I've been told my voice gets higher in work meetings when I am trying to appease others too much, I've seen this a lot with women. I try to be direct and steady in my tone in those environments, but people can get intimidated. It may be interesting to try to observe what you are feeling when your vocal tone changes.

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    This thread is so weird. lol

    My voice is always the same and I kind of hate how I sound but people always tell me they like my voice. It is kind of low and raspy.

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    Not really, but I notice my voice sounds higher and cuter when I speak to my boyfriend.

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    I just intentionally trained myself to sound less like this. My vowels still get grossly nasal when I'm tired or surprised though.

    Last edited by lokasenna; 12-23-2019 at 08:20 PM.

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