[ENFJ] An ENFJ, INFJ, and ENTJ have been pursuing me the last 2.5 weeks..who did I choose?

An ENFJ, INFJ, and ENTJ have been pursuing me the last 2.5 weeks..who did I choose?

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This is a discussion on An ENFJ, INFJ, and ENTJ have been pursuing me the last 2.5 weeks..who did I choose? within the ENFJ Forum - The Givers forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; I've been getting to know 3 really good guys the last few weeks and I thought it would be cool ...

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    ENFJ

    An ENFJ, INFJ, and ENTJ have been pursuing me the last 2.5 weeks..who did I choose?

    I've been getting to know 3 really good guys the last few weeks and I thought it would be cool to share this from an ENFJ female perspective. Today I decided which one I'd like to have a relationship with and you might be surprised about the one I picked.

    Let me tell you about them...

    Let's start off with the ENFJ guy. This is my first time ever talking to an ENFJ guy...and wow..they are something else. Super good vibe, really smart, funny, nice voice (is that an ENFJ thing?). I had a good connection with him but he was not being aggressive enough like the other 2 as far as asking me on proper dates, but he would call me out of the blue a lot and I liked that. It was really interesting finally meeting an ENFJ guy.

    The INFJ. I met him at my friends new years party and he was pretty much in love with me from that day on lol. By the end of the night he typed out a message to me on his phone and handed it to me telling me he's never met a girl like me before and wants to take me to dinner that friday and asked if he could have my number. I was SUPER impressed by this. It took me a while to warm all the way up to him though. He is very genuine and smart and just a great guy. He was very sweet the way he talks to me and like to let me know how he likes me and what he thinks about me.

    The ENTJ. We have a mutual friend and are interested in the same things involving a certain kind of business (wow it sounds like I'm talking about drugs; but it's not drugs). Any way, I had never met him but always saw things posted about him, ect, and he is really attractive. So I sent him a friend request on facebook hoping he would notice me lol....it worked. He liked one of my pictures then sent me a message asking me for advice about something (smooth lol). We talked pretty much every day since then. He is super smart and it takes a lot to impress me but this guy is impressive across the board, has a lot going for him and he's actually got a really good sense of humor. I could talk to this guy all day...about everything...and anything. We mailed each other hats from our own businesses lol. Chemistry is really good with him and he is the easiest to talk to with the most in common but he lives in another state. He owns land near where I live so we were talking about plans together for when he comes here next month.

    Today I decided I'm going to pursue something with the INFJ. We'll see where this goes......
    Last edited by HGy; 01-13-2020 at 10:13 PM.



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    ENFJ

    This ligit sounds like the outline to a romcom.

    I don't know if I had any advice but you've made your decision so I don't need to lol.
    I probably would have gone with the INFJ, but that might be because I like them in theory. (I've most probably met some but have no confirmation)

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    Your description does remind me of my ENFJ friends, and from experience what's behind the description is much different from what the description seems to be. If I read this without knowing you're an ENFJ, I'd never guess it was written by your type. I would suspect you'd go for an NF-dom, likely with some difference instead of complete similarity.
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