This is a discussion on Chitchat Thread within the ENFJ Forum - The Givers forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; Originally Posted by Luna1 Makes sense, most of us are busying over-analysing something that happened 7 years ago so you ...
Looks like my friend wasn't much of a dancer.
I'm curious to know how is it you all come across to others.
I keep having these dreams which seem to be prompting awareness of what I say to others, and dreams in which I seem to be having an interaction with myself.
I've had numerous dreams where I say something to someone, usually in passing that I think is no big deal, then later the person returns to ask me why did I say what I said to them.
In one of the most recent, there was a woman I had spent the night outside with, she wore all black, had really dark hair. She took my sunglasses off, or rather I put them on her, and she kept them on for a while. Which is something that speaks to me, since I never leave my home without my sunglasses, ever. She didn't speak much and only spoke what was needed.
All of these are traits I later realized are exactly the same within myself. When I go out, I usually bring others outside with me for a walk. Even how I remember her, mostly her face, the rest in silhouette. I tend to wear all black because I know it forces people to focus on my face.
The last dream I had, a woman was sitting directly across from me, she was speaking to me and a group of others. Despite her expressions her eyes remained at a baseline level, and almost unchanging. We were speaking, but it was almost as if we weren't. I didn't even want to speak, I was just fixed on her eyes. It seemed all I wanted to do was look at her eyes.
She was dressed in all black, had one black ring on, and sat with her legs folded almost in the same manner I do.
I remember as early as my teenage years my girlfriend's mother saying that when you looked at my eyes, it made you wonder what I was thinking. All the same parallels.
I'll return to check in another year, maybe.
Hiiiiii! I just wanted to say hello to all the lovely ENFJs out there.
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