There is nothing quite so beautiful as grace that stems from love. Undeserved kindness.
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There is nothing quite so beautiful as grace that stems from love. Undeserved kindness.
This might be directed at most NF, may include J, types. As NFs we will know when we progress in these traits when there's increase in permeability to everything. Once we realize we've progressed in empathy and understanding, particularly useful as an ENFJ, when you practice viewing not only from a 1st person perspective(my intentions, experiences), 2nd person(people I'm interacting with)(1st + 2nd = We[people's shared meanings and understandings(these form our morals)], 3rd person(subject or object[may be objective] you're talking about), We'll experience more, and be more accepting of pain(intangible and tangible)[but there won't be less struggles], as a result of this We'll handle pain more dramatically. There will be more intense moments of sadness, but I promise you but there will also be more intense moments of bliss. You will cry for every sentient beings alive sometime(I believe once you realize and have gone through it) and you will intuitively know how far you've fallen and risen the scale that encompasses this.
To those I have experienced a part of you somewhat, I love you, and to those I have not experienced you through my senses, well I hope to include you in my love someday. Good luck everyone in your journey and this is my epiphany, which I wanted to share with you today.
I had a realization one time that with this specific person, I could say anything and he wouldn't not like me or get angry. I could say I was pissed at him and that wouldn't affect anything. He wouldn't drop me for being honest.
It was one of those lightbulb moments. It took a few minutes for me to process but it was a very freeing feeling.
I realized that I am awesome and so I should trust in myself more.
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