I find that although we can read what the experts say and assume some types are more likely to fit for us(Like an INFP for example). We as individuals find some character traits in our partner to be what we need in a relationship,
I know several ENFJ's who go for the ISTJ and INTJ personality type as they find them to be very straight forward,
Whilst many others go for the INFP for the emotional closeness.
And so on and so forth.
I personally haven't had a type that has solely attracted me(In honesty I never really felt that much attraction to anyone before now),
But I always felt IxTx's could be a great match for me,
Or they went for me,
I liked the introversion to balance out my extroversion,
And the thinking function to balance out my emotions!
But having said that recently I've fallen for an INFJ(To the extent I think this INFJ is "The One"),
And found that for me an INFJ is perfect,
Or more this specific one is haha
But thats a story for another time!
So what types have you dated?
Was there common reason for this?
And what are your opinions on the predisposed selection of a "Best type" for you,
I personally think it's a unique bond,
That happens between two people,
And that personality types does not play an active role,
It merely makes it easier to find out where you two lie in communication!
If you have found someone to be the person you'd like to spend your life with,
What type are they?
And what makes them special or different?
I'll share what I think later on the thread :)