I used to think I was ENFJ but now I'm unsure. Is there someone who can help me? I've studied MBTI for 4 years and help people to find their types all of the time on tumblr, but I'm so horrible at analyzing myself. I originally typed as ESFJ, but that didn't feel right to me. I know I use Fe-hands down. I don't know if it is my dominate or supporting cognitive function though. Really, this function is all I'm sure of. My best friend (INFP) tells me that I'm not like his other ENFJ friends and I'm not as charismatic. He tells me that I'm more of a hybrid between ENFJ and ESFJ. I do not use past experiences to make choices in the present. I'm a very in the now kind of person. This is why I'm not ESFJ. They pull from past experiences all the time.
My point is, Can someone ask me real life questions to help me determine my type? I don't believe the tests online are accurate and it takes someone looking into detail to find someones true type. I'm willing to answer any and all questions. This has been a long time coming and I really should have done this sooner. Any help I can get would be great! Thank you so much!!