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This is a discussion on Ask the ENFJ's about anything. within the ENFJ Forum - The Givers forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; Originally Posted by Rapunzel Yay! :D Thank you so much! ENFJs really are the most considerate and in-tuned with others, ...

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    ENFJ - The Givers

    Quote Originally Posted by Rapunzel View Post
    Yay! :D Thank you so much!

    ENFJs really are the most considerate and in-tuned with others, than any type I've met. I had an interesting experience the other night, talking over cam with my ENFJ friend... He said something that bothered me slightly, and my expression changed in the most subtle way ever...and he picked up on it and asked what was wrong. Of course, it wasn't noteworthy enough to mention, but the simple fact that he noticed... I was completely amazed.

    Hmm, another question. What hurts an ENFJ the most?
    I would agree whole-heartedly with Silent Scream (^.^)

    My own biggest pains come from:

    When someone who is supposed to care a lot about you constantly puts down how you feel, especially just because when your having a great day due to an amazing personal goal accomplishment. Also, when the people you make lots of time and consideration for give you no consideration in return or even appreciate that you are going out of your way for them.

    Internal conflict is hard for me to deal with too, when I am trying to please too many people and also myself. For example: when my friend needs help (she is going through a divorce and has taken on the struggle of juggling her mortgage and bills herself) but I also need to have the freedom of my own space to concentrate on my homework. I feel a lot like I am letting her down as a friend, though she doesn't ever even hint as that as how she feels about it but I also can't afford the extra miles to drive back and forth to work and school from her house. I love her to pieces and she understands.

    I know this may or may not have anything to do with all the things that come with PerC, but my love language is words of affirmation. So when people say mean hurtful things it stings a lot and makes me feel empty. Some people know how to strike a chord (^.^)

    Oh I am very protective of my friends and family. When it comes to me, I can pretty much handle whatever they will dish out but when I see my friends or family hurting because of someone else, it really makes me feel extremely heated. It hurts me to see people I care about hurting.

    I'm sure there are other things, but thinking about all the things that hurt is kind of depressing! :P
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nadine M. Viores View Post
    I know this may or may not have anything to do with all the things that come with PerC, but my love language is words of affirmation.
    Y'know, I actually would've guessed that Words of Affirmation is a common love language for ENFJs. :D It's true for all three ENFJs I've ever met.

    Quote Originally Posted by Nadine M. Viores View Post
    I'm sure there are other things, but thinking about all the things that hurt is kind of depressing! :P
    Ackk, I'm sorry. xD

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rapunzel View Post
    Y'know, I actually would've guessed that Words of Affirmation is a common love language for ENFJs. :D It's true for all three ENFJs I've ever met.


    Ackk, I'm sorry. xD
    I think that's mine as well. Words ... genuine ones mean more that anything else. Also .. recognition and acknowledgement of all that i've done for some else.

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    ENFJ - The Givers

    Quote Originally Posted by Rapunzel View Post
    Ackk, I'm sorry. xD
    No Biggie... I have a curiousity streak a mile wide (^.^) So I understand wanting to know :) Giggles... I just needed a break from the multitude of thoughts going through my mind.
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    ENFJ - The Givers

    Quote Originally Posted by SilentScream View Post
    I think that's mine as well. Words ... genuine ones mean more that anything else. Also .. recognition and acknowledgement of all that i've done for some else.
    That would be exactly it Silent :) That is exactly what my love language is, I have considered making a thread about it with a link to a website. I have all the books at home too for studying it. I used to do it for my friends who were starting out in relationships so that they could understand each other better and what the love language means. My one set of friends that I sat down with and went through this long process with are happy like me and my Bubbly <3 It also helps though that they are compatible with eachother outside of the love language too. I enjoy little things like this for some strange odd reason giggles.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nadine M. Viores View Post
    That would be exactly it Silent :) That is exactly what my love language is, I have considered making a thread about it with a link to a website. I have all the books at home too for studying it. I used to do it for my friends who were starting out in relationships so that they could understand each other better and what the love language means. My one set of friends that I sat down with and went through this long process with are happy like me and my Bubbly <3 It also helps though that they are compatible with eachother outside of the love language too. I enjoy little things like this for some strange odd reason giggles.
    dont think about making threads ... make 'em :) it's a common discussion on PerC
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    ENFJ - The Givers

    Quote Originally Posted by SilentScream View Post
    dont think about making threads ... make 'em :) it's a common discussion on PerC
    I worry about copyright laws.. I know I should prob ask first and then make sure to give credit to the people who came up with it :) Let me get my books and resources out and I will set it up properly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nadine M. Viores View Post
    I worry about copyright laws.. I know I should prob ask first and then make sure to give credit to the people who came up with it :) Let me get my books and resources out and I will set it up properly.
    Aah ... that cud be a problem . some material cant be published like that.
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    ENFJ - The Givers

    Quote Originally Posted by SilentScream View Post
    Aah ... that cud be a problem . some material cant be published like that.
    They do have a website though.. there would not be a copyright law sharing that!

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    Quote Originally Posted by SilentScream View Post
    Aah ... that cud be a problem . some material cant be published like that.
    Oh no. Not those cud problems again!
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