This is really bringing to light some of the inherent differences amongst us. I hope more people add to this ...
It's really interesting to see all the 2's, 6's, 9's and 3's.
All the women so far are 2's. Could it be that the socialization impact on ENFJ women makes them even more giving than the men?
Oh and @Vivid Melody ... now I really see why your husband and I are so similar. We're both 6w7's :) I had a feeling our Enneagram might be similar, if not the same.
Ok ... other ENFJ's please report in :) Looking forward to a complete ENFJ enneagram list soon.