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This is a discussion on The ENFJ Enneagram List within the ENFJ Forum - The Givers forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; Copy paste the enneagram of the ENFJ above and add your own to the list below. It would be nice ...

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    The ENFJ Enneagram List

    Copy paste the enneagram of the ENFJ above and add your own to the list below. It would be nice to compare and contrast.

    Also, I took the Headings from: Enneagram Institute: Enneagram Testing & Training

    I know the headings are not exact descriptors. There are others online. Feel free to pick the ones that you feel best suit you.

    I'll start

    EDIT: Since I still had time to edit my post, I'm copy-pasting all the entries here:

    SilentScream: 6w7 "The Buddy", 9w8 "The Mediator", 3w2 "The Charmer"

    Happy about Nothing: 2w1 "The Servant" 9w1 "The Dreamer" 6w5 "The Defender"

    kiwigrl: 2w3 "The Host/hostess", 9w1 "The Dreamer", 7w6 "The Entertainer"

    Vivid Melody's Husband: 6w7 "The Loyal Friend," 2w1 "The Helper," 1w9 "The Idealist"

    chickpeaax: 2w1 "The Servant", 9w1 "The Dreamer", 6w5 "The Defender"

    Nadine M. Viores: 9w8 "The Mediator", 5w6 "The Problem Solver", 2w3 "The Host/Hostess"
    Last edited by SilentScream; 09-27-2011 at 11:08 AM.



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    SilentScream: 6w7 "The Buddy", 9w8 "The Mediator", 3w2 "The Charmer"

    Happy about Nothing: 2w1 "The Servant" 9w1 "The Dreamer" 6w5 "The Defender"

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    SS: Momentarily derailing your thread, sorry buddy.


    Quote Originally Posted by Happy about Nothing. View Post
    2w1 "The Servant"
    A real life ENFJ 2w1?! I HAVE QUESTIONS!!! I know that you are but one ENFJ 2w1 out of many so your answers won't necessarily reflect those of all who are like you, but if you would be so kind...

    1) How "Servant-like" are you really? How obligated do you feel to "serve/help" people?

    2) Would you do ANYTHING for a loved one, ANYTHING for an acquaintance, ANYTHING for a stranger? Where do you draw the line, if you do draw one at all?

    3) How does reciprocity work for you? Do you expect nothing done for you in return? Do you expect others to do 1/10th as much for you as you do for them? 1/4? 1/3? 1/2? Equal?

    4) Do you have codependent characteristics? Do you have a lot of Love Addict characteristics?

    5) How forgiving are you? Are there things you wouldn't forgive?

    6) How agreeable are you? For example, if one of your friends point blank told you that your political or religious opinions are "retarded" how would you respond? Would you become angry and defensive? Try and change the topic? Try and appease them? Agree with them to shut them up?

    7) Would you consider yourself a masochist?

    8) Would you consider yourself self-righteous? Do others?

    9) How important is it for you to not offend/upset anybody or hurt their feelings?

    10) How accepting of others are you?

    If any of these questions are too personal, feel free to ignore them. I'm just genuinely curious about ENFJ 2w1s.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Niccolo Machiavelli View Post
    A real life ENFJ 2w1?! I HAVE QUESTIONS!!! I know that you are but one ENFJ 2w1 out of many so your answers won't necessarily reflect those of all who are like you, but if you would be so kind...
    1) How "Servant-like" are you really? How obligated do you feel to "serve/help" people?

    Yes, almost always. If someone comes to me looking for guidance or advice of any kind....I can't really turn them away. Even with acquaintances. People need people to listen, and I need to listen to people. In a way, it sustains me, but it overwhelms me at times.

    2) Would you do ANYTHING for a loved one, ANYTHING for an acquaintance, ANYTHING for a stranger? Where do you draw the line, if you do draw one at all?

    - Would I do anything for a loved one or acquaintance? It's hard for me to turn people away. I might not do ANYTHING. But I would go very far....to the point where it might be of a great inconvenience to me.

    - Would I do ANYTHING for a stranger? In small ways I might put them before myself- (e.g. I'm in line at a grocery store, me and another person get to the line at the same time- I will generally insist that they go ahead). Not much more than that, however. I can be quite caustic (usually in my mind) and cold with strangers when I'm in a bad mood.

    3) How does reciprocity work for you? Do you expect nothing done for you in return? Do you expect others to do 1/10th as much for you as you do for them? 1/4? 1/3? 1/2? Equal?

    I can't fairly say I expect nothing in return. I don't, however, stand by keeping track of my good deeds....so long as I know the other person isn't taking advantage of me. If I suspect they are, that's when I start keeping track. If I sense that my kindness isn't at all reciprocated, I would probably be bitter. Or I would shut myself off to that person. People who keep taking are toxic to me....because I'll most likely have the desire to keep giving. So, let's go with 1/2 or 1/3.

    4) Do you have codependent characteristics? Do you have a lot of Love Addict characteristics?

    I can certainly relate to certain points in the codependency description....am I addicted to love? I do need love, but I don't think that it's that extreme. There have been points in my life when I've been quite healthy and independent, and other times when I was rather insecure and codependent. When I'm going through a great change or I feel as though I'm losing control of my life, I tend to become more codependent.

    5) How forgiving are you? Are there things you wouldn't forgive?

    I can only think of one person who (when their name comes to mind) makes me feel bitter. Generally, I'm very forgiving. However, there are times/things that I could see myself having a hard time forgiving. (e.g. Hurting someone I love) If someone intentionally hurts someone that I love, I would have a hard time forgiving them.

    6) How agreeable are you? For example, if one of your friends point blank told you that your political or religious opinions are "retarded" how would you respond? Would you become angry and defensive? Try and change the topic? Try and appease them? Agree with them to shut them up?

    I would become angry, yes. I would become angry if anyone said to another person, it's disrespectful.

    7) Would you consider yourself a masochist?


    No.

    8) Would you consider yourself self-righteous? Do others?

    I don't consider myself to be, and if I am it's not because I think so highly of myself. I am opinionated about what I believe to be morally right, but I'm careful in who I express my opinions to. I have been perceived as self-righteous at times.

    9) How important is it for you to not offend/upset anybody or hurt their feelings?

    50/50

    10) How accepting of others are you?


    I'd like to think I'm pretty accepting. I really do try to be.
    Last edited by Happy about Nothing.; 09-26-2011 at 09:27 PM.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Happy about Nothing. View Post
    ...
    I saw that you replied to my post and I got all excited! Then I came on and saw that you answered all of my questions, THANK YOU SO MUCH! I would totally thank your post but I can't thank posts. So once again, THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!
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    SilentScream: 6w7 "The Buddy", 9w8 "The Mediator", 3w2 "The Charmer"

    Happy about Nothing: 2w1 "The Servant" 9w1 "The Dreamer" 6w5 "The Defender"

    kiwigrl: 2w3 "The Host/hostess", 9w1 "The Dreamer", 7w6 "The Entertainer"


    Those titles definitely sound like me!!! I am all of those three words. Though lately I have been the mediator/ peacekeeper.
    Also, I tested as 2w1 last year, but somehow I got 2w3 this time.
    Last edited by kiwigrl; 09-27-2011 at 12:56 AM.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kiwigrl View Post
    SilentScream: 6w7 "The Buddy", 9w8 "The Mediator", 3w2 "The Charmer"

    Happy about Nothing: 2w1 "The Servant" 9w1 "The Dreamer" 6w5 "The Defender"

    kiwigrl: 2w3, 9w1 "The Dreamer", 7w6

    I don't know the descriptions as above, where did you guys find that?

    Also, I tested as 2w1 last year, but somehow I got 2w3 this time.
    They're on the site that Silent posted. Yours would be:
    2w3 "The Host/Hostess" 9w1 "The Dreamer" 7w6 "The Entertainer"
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    Quote Originally Posted by Happy about Nothing. View Post
    They're on the site that Silent posted. Yours would be:
    2w3 "The Host/Hostess" 9w1 "The Dreamer" 7w6 "The Entertainer"
    Thanks, I opened the link but obviously didn't look thoroughly enough. I like to skim over things lol. This is cool, I hope other ENFJs respond to the thread. So far we are all different in our types... ahem... @lullabyblossom , @mommy , @Ariana , @chickpeaax , @Crono , @penguinfrk , @KC Tan and all the rest of you ENFJs.
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    SilentScream: 6w7 "The Buddy", 9w8 "The Mediator", 3w2 "The Charmer"

    Happy about Nothing: 2w1 "The Servant" 9w1 "The Dreamer" 6w5 "The Defender"

    kiwigrl: 2w3 "The Host/hostess", 9w1 "The Dreamer", 7w6 "The Entertainer"

    Vivid Melody's Husband: 6w7 "The Loyal Friend," 2w1 "The Helper," 1w9 "The Idealist"
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    ENFJ - The Givers

    SilentScream: 6w7 "The Buddy", 9w8 "The Mediator", 3w2 "The Charmer"

    Happy about Nothing: 2w1 "The Servant" 9w1 "The Dreamer" 6w5 "The Defender"

    kiwigrl: 2w3 "The Host/hostess", 9w1 "The Dreamer", 7w6 "The Entertainer"

    Vivid Melody's Husband: 6w7 "The Loyal Friend," 2w1 "The Helper," 1w9 "The Idealist"

    chickpeaax: 2w1 "The Servant", 9w1 "The Dreamer", 6w5 "The Defender"
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