Note: I'm talking in plural, but what I really mean is "me - generalized to most ENFJs, I would assume".
ENFJs are all about giving. As the title says, we're "The Givers". We like to make others not just happy, but fulfilled. We make good partners, coworkers, bosses (more often than not), friends, husbands, wives, brothers, sisters, parents, the list goes on... But as a general rule, we're people people.
ENFJs see the world as a big, complex set of mechanisms and emotions. ENFJs want people to be the best versions of themselves that they can be, whether that means being true to themselves, achieving what they set out to accomplish, maintaining what there is, or just being happy in the moment.
ENFJs do their dues. We're responsible, often times confident, trustworthy, and we can get shit done when we need to. However, we're not our own focus. We are driven by our desire to help others, which sometimes means we're driven specifically by other people's emotions instead of our own.
ENFJs are sensitive. We get hurt, we cry sometimes, we can break down, we can feel like shit, we can rebel, we can shout, we can break things, we can criticize, but in the end, we calm down and get back on track.
ENFJs are about doing good. Not well, but good, sometimes at the cost of doing well. We can give too much of ourselves, spreading too thin and forgetting where we stand on the matter. We need someone to keep us in check from time to time, someone to give us a good wake up slap and say "YOU MATTER TOO, DAMN IT!".
ENFJs might sound like a bunch of superheroes, but we're not. We just happen to like being good people, especially when it comes to satisfying others. In fact, I think it's pretty selfish. A part of why ENFJs do what they do, is because if we didn't, we would feel like we have no meaning, like we're not doing anything with our lives and we don't matter to the world.
Just like the man says, "We're not on our journey to save the world but to save ourselves. But in doing that you save the world. The influence of a vital person vitalizes." - Joseph Campbell.