[ENFP] Virginity... loss of - Page 6

Virginity... loss of

Hello Guest! Sign up to join the discussion below...
Page 6 of 6 FirstFirst ... 4 5 6
Results 51 to 60 of 60
Thank Tree128Thanks

This is a discussion on Virginity... loss of within the ENFP Forum - The Inspirers forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; Originally Posted by legallyblonde502 ... Only for women?! And people wonder why I'm gay. (Yes, it's true. I let campy ...

  1. #51

    Quote Originally Posted by legallyblonde502 View Post


    Only for women?!
    And people wonder why I'm gay. (Yes, it's true. I let campy horror films make life decisions for me. )
    Danse Macabre and legallyblonde502 thanked this post.

  2. #52
    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Quote Originally Posted by PeterTheGreater View Post
    And what is the reason for this?

    If I'm understanding your question correctly, the reason birth rates aren't 100% is (and I'll go more into in your next bit) because we don't know when a female is fertile. If we're having sex all the time and the woman's only fertile for 1/3rd of the month, that means there's approximately a 30% birth rate per time having sex--if it's that high, even.

    Not sure what exactly you mean by suggesting that we don't have any signals...

    The bonobo example is a good and entertaining one. A particular species of bonobo signals its fertility when the female's vagina swells to epic proportions. When the male is ready to mate, he puts on a mating display where his penis enlarges and turns bright red. We don't have anything like that whatsoever.

    Well, is that is the only reason, biologically speaking?

    Not nearly. We're K-selected, meaning we don't have many young at one time. Our kids are absolutely stupid for the first few years of their lives. It's difficult to reliably reproduce. We were hunter-gatherers. The list goes on.

    What about the evolution of cultural transmission and more complex education in our species (i.e. greater neural conformity)?
    And all that makes part of our transition from survival of the fittest to survival of the smartest?

    In this case, "smartest" and "fittest" are the same exact thing. We are "fit" to survive because our intelligence has allowed us to gather food and survive to reproduce. Your last point, it seems, is irrelevant as it's a misunderstanding and misapplication of Darwin's unfortunately-phrased term.

  3. #53
    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Quote Originally Posted by cue5c View Post
    For a woman, sex is letting someone enter her. It's a very intimidating concept, but with the right person it's a beautiful showcase of trust and compassion. I'm not saying that women are the only people who get nervous, just a thought on why you weren't.
    no i understand and appreciate that. i was speaking more in terms of the pedestal in which i would watch my friends regard it, boys will be boys. i'm not going to pretend i didn't think about it from time to time, but i knew when i'd be ready and it was never more than that for me.

    nice sentiment
    NaughyChimp and cue5c thanked this post.

  4. Remove Advertisements

  5. #54
    INTJ - The Scientists

    I'm 12, what's sex?
    cue5c thanked this post.

  6. #55
    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Quote Originally Posted by Tridentus View Post
    , but i knew when i'd be ready and it was never more than that for me.
    It's amazing that you had that self-knowledge, and the maturity to wait until you knew you could handle it.

  7. #56

    Lol at most of the beginning answers in 2012.

    Some people gotta get off their high horses cause that was an irritating read.

    To answer the question, I haven't biologically lost my virginity in that I've never had a successful penetration. Everything else was fair game though.
    I lost everything else by experimenting with random guys I've "dated" out of curiosity. It was pretty bad and it sucks because my sexual drive is high yet unfulfilled.

    I've learned many things through it though. I've realized I cannot do casual hookups because I literally cannot be turned on by anyone unless I'm emotionally and mentally connected to that person.
    They have to physically attract me and turn me on.
    NaughyChimp, Convex and Crowbo thanked this post.

  8. #57

    Virginity... loss of

    I believe it was in the moment for me I was a month shy from turning 20 - I was with my husband ( bf at the time ) for about 8 months , he was the first person that I felt sexually attracted to - we connected mentally and I was really turned on by him- however at the same moment , I felt safe around him - it’s definitely body impulses and chemistry on my part more so than love itself when i retrace my thought back to the day that I lost my virginity to my partner
    NaughyChimp thanked this post.

  9. #58

    Haven't lost it yet but no big deal. For now it's best that I make like Aaron Burr and just wait for it XD.
    NaughyChimp and Falling Foxes thanked this post.

  10. #59

    lol this thread
    I was 15
    NaughyChimp thanked this post.

  11. #60

    I'm kinda surprised so many people back in the 2012 PerC were "no sex until marriage" on here. Feels like that culture here has changed? Strange to remember how particular a circle of ENFPs you find on here is.

    Sex wasn't a big deal to me, just a natural extension of intimacy. As someone who didn't have a "heterosexual" teenage experience people would assume I didn't lose it till I was 19. But I consider it happened when I was 14, with a 14-year-old fortunately... Sad to see so many predatory first times in this thread too. And yeah... I waited till love... I just found it fast. :P
    NaughyChimp, ai.tran.75 and Crowbo thanked this post.

Page 6 of 6 FirstFirst ... 4 5 6

Similar Threads

  1. [ENTP] Virginity.. loss of
    By diverged in forum ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Replies: 61
    Last Post: 02-04-2018, 05:23 PM
  2. [INFJ] Virginity???
    By PurpleProse in forum INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Replies: 59
    Last Post: 11-26-2011, 02:54 PM
  3. [INFP] Virginity
    By BryterLayter in forum INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Replies: 132
    Last Post: 09-29-2010, 11:11 PM

Tags for this Thread


Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
All times are GMT -7. The time now is 12:35 AM.
Information provided on the site is meant to complement and not replace any advice or information from a health professional.
© 2014 PersonalityCafe

SEO by vBSEO 3.6.0