This is a discussion on Virginity... loss of within the ENFP Forum - The Inspirers forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; Originally Posted by legallyblonde502 ... Only for women?! And people wonder why I'm gay. (Yes, it's true. I let campy ...
I'm 12, what's sex?
Lol at most of the beginning answers in 2012.
Some people gotta get off their high horses cause that was an irritating read.
To answer the question, I haven't biologically lost my virginity in that I've never had a successful penetration. Everything else was fair game though.
I lost everything else by experimenting with random guys I've "dated" out of curiosity. It was pretty bad and it sucks because my sexual drive is high yet unfulfilled.
I've learned many things through it though. I've realized I cannot do casual hookups because I literally cannot be turned on by anyone unless I'm emotionally and mentally connected to that person.
They have to physically attract me and turn me on.
I believe it was in the moment for me I was a month shy from turning 20 - I was with my husband ( bf at the time ) for about 8 months , he was the first person that I felt sexually attracted to - we connected mentally and I was really turned on by him- however at the same moment , I felt safe around him - it’s definitely body impulses and chemistry on my part more so than love itself when i retrace my thought back to the day that I lost my virginity to my partner
Haven't lost it yet but no big deal. For now it's best that I make like Aaron Burr and just wait for it XD.
lol this thread
I was 15
I'm kinda surprised so many people back in the 2012 PerC were "no sex until marriage" on here. Feels like that culture here has changed? Strange to remember how particular a circle of ENFPs you find on here is.
Sex wasn't a big deal to me, just a natural extension of intimacy. As someone who didn't have a "heterosexual" teenage experience people would assume I didn't lose it till I was 19. But I consider it happened when I was 14, with a 14-year-old fortunately... Sad to see so many predatory first times in this thread too. And yeah... I waited till love... I just found it fast. :P