So i am crushing on this ENFP (enfps are my guilty pleasure lol). We have been friends for two years and we were always "just friends" until lately he has been sending strong hints that he wants to take it a step further (unless its just his flirty personality). I am terrible at sending any types of hints back since i am an introvert but i started acting more flirty than usual. We both have a quirky sense of humor and it it so hard for me to find someone who understands my humor. He said out of the million of friends he has i am the only one that really gets his humor (unless he is just trying to make me feel special like you ENFPs tend to do).
I do believe i am not intelligent enough for him though . He also says i am the only friend he actually wants to hangout with (then again he could be trying to make me feel special) Now that I initiate stuff more he has been ignoring me. He doesn't reply to messages and whenever i see him he looks depressed or doesn't want to look my way for very long. He says hi when i say hi but he says it very subtly. I thought maybe i'm being too clingy but I rarely contacted him and he doesn't contact me at all anymore.
He greets me so differently from his normal optimistic, cheery attitude. He used to drop whatever he was doing to speak to me and he'd smile lot more. He even made sure we had classes together. He has been talking to this other girl recently ( i never get jealous. but i got very jealous) and acting flirty but a few days ago he was telling me how he didn't like her and when i see them from a distance he doesn't smile with her like he does with me. What makes you ENFP's ignore someone? did he get bored of me? the only thing i can think of is that i wasn't really listening to what he was saying last time and i kept getting distracted. I don't want to confront him like im 'jumping to conclusions'.