I'm ENFP. There aren't a whole lot in my life, and I'm not close to any of them. But I remember reading about a girl I knew writing about her fight with depression. I didn't know her well, but she was super bubbly, outgoing, loved attention, and loved parties. I guess I assumed that most of her living went on on the outside, and I was so startled to hear how she had struggled internally with depression after her best friend had abandoned her. I pointed at my computer screen and said, "Ah ha! She's definitely ENFP."
I did the same thing when I read The Diary of Anne Frank. She talked about having an inner life that no one knew about. She felt like all everyone else saw was her smile, and no one knew about this deep, creative, moody inner self. I thought, "That's an ENFP" and people online agree.
Has anyone had a similar experience? Or what tipped you off that someone was an ENFP?