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    I am a similar situation but he’s the enfp.
    Last edited by iblameyou; 06-15-2018 at 06:29 AM.
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    I appreciate the sentiment, but I'm not that hurt by the situation. I knew that nothing good was going to come from me forcing myself into her life like this. I feel dumb more than anything for trying to push her to her snapping point with me. She did give me a chance to share my feelings, but ultimately I could tell she really did not want to have any conversation with me about our "relationship". I was rushed and overall my thoughts came out panicked and unorganized. A total departure from how i hoped it would go.

    I only wish I could be of service to her, but I think she's at a point in life where she is very much against the reality of getting hand outs and help from men. From my observations of her and the info she has shared with me about her life, she's not very fond of men in the traditional romantic or platonic ways. I don't know how big of an issue not having a father figure plays on someone's personality, nor do I like pigeon holding people to the "daddy issues" dogma. But it's become clear to me, something about her relationship with her father (or lack thereof) is playing heavily on her soul in some ways. In some ways it seems to have benefited her with regards to work ethic and pure determination, but it seems somewhat crippling in my eyes. She's going through some rough waters, seemingly not harshly affected by it much on the surface, but i can tell its eating away at her soul, the problem seems compounded by the fact she doesn't really have a man in her life that knows how to deal with her or make her life better. For a while I thought it was just me that she was being hot tempered with, given the fact that I have been fairly aggressive with her, but after just observing her behavior towards men and women, she just doesn't treat men with respect the same way she deals with women. She's extremely polite and courteous, but it changes whenever men try to challenge her in any way. I feel sad for her now more than anything. But there is nothing for me to do other than sit around on my hands and wait for her to reach out to me, or just give up again and turn my back and forget about her. Unfortunately my analytical mind won't let this go at all. So I'm stuck here just driving myself crazy. I can't even focus on work or my projects anymore lol. I was blinded by her personality which gave me the impression she cared about me, but in reality she felt nothing. At least that's how she phrased it.

    Thank you all for enduring my story. I may start another thread on more detailed issues.
    Last edited by MaysInfectious; 06-15-2018 at 08:15 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MaysInfectious View Post
    I appreciate the sentiment, but I'm not that hurt by the situation. I knew that nothing good was going to come from me forcing myself into her life like this. I feel dumb more than anything for trying to push her to her snapping point with me. She did give me a chance to share my feelings, but ultimately I could tell she really did not want to have any conversation with me about our "relationship". I was rushed and overall my thoughts came out panicked and unorganized. A total departure from how i hoped it would go.

    I only wish I could be of service to her, but I think she's at a point in life where she is very much against the reality of getting hand outs and help from men. From my observations of her and the info she has shared with me about her life, she's not very fond of men in the traditional romantic or platonic ways. I don't know how big of an issue not having a father figure plays on someone's personality, nor do I like pigeon holding people to the "daddy issues" dogma. But it's become clear to me, something about her relationship with her father (or lack thereof) is playing heavily on her soul in some ways. In some ways it seems to have benefited her with regards to work ethic and pure determination, but it seems somewhat crippling in my eyes. She's going through some rough waters, seemingly not harshly affected by it much on the surface, but i can tell its eating away at her soul, the problem seems compounded by the fact she doesn't really have a man in her life that knows how to deal with her or make her life better. For a while I thought it was just me that she was being hot tempered with, given the fact that I have been fairly aggressive with her, but after just observing her behavior towards men and women, she just doesn't treat men with respect the same way she deals with women. She's extremely polite and courteous, but it changes whenever men try to challenge her in any way. I feel sad for her now more than anything. But there is nothing for me to do other than sit around on my hands and wait for her to reach out to me, or just give up again and turn my back and forget about her. Unfortunately my analytical mind won't let this go at all. So I'm stuck here just driving myself crazy. I can't even focus on work or my projects anymore lol. I was blinded by her personality which gave me the impression she cared about me, but in reality she felt nothing. At least that's how she phrased it.

    Thank you all for enduring my story. I may start another thread on more detailed issues.
    Hey... I'm so sorry. I wish I had a window to see what you're talking about, I also wish I could bridge the gap somehow. You've cared about her a long time, so I think I'd just keep showing yourself to be a friend to her and that's probably good advice no matter what unfolds.
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    I care about everyone in my life in extreme ways, and to be frank, she doesn't need me caring for her anymore than anyone else, she's a independent women that is taking care of herself just fine. I think i was just blinded by lust over her, she is unquestionably the hottest female in the office and in general the hottest in my life currently. I'm not trying to paint her or the situation in a bad light at all if it seems that way, so please don't feel sorry. Your opinions have helped. I'm just telling it how I perceive it, which in all honesty isn't the most accurate. I kind of wish she would voice her feelings on life in general on a site like this but most likely she'd probably hate that I'm even talking about this to complete strangers haha.
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    There's a gap here that I think could be broached with friendship. It seems easy enough to be friends with INTPs. Usually we ENFPs need our love interest to be our friend. It's tough from here to help-- wish I could do better. @MaysInfectious .

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alesha View Post
    There's a gap here that I think could be broached with friendship. It seems easy enough to be friends with INTPs. Usually we ENFPs need our love interest to be our friend. It's tough from here to help-- wish I could do better. @MaysInfectious .
    Honestly you have shared a lot. I only really came here to pick brains and verify whether or not she truly is a enfp as I assumed. I never thought I would bridge a friendship gap with her, I just wanted to understand her better. In that, I think I accomplished that, even if it did move us apart. She doesn't hate me, I just don't fit in her life. It's hard for me to relate to her on several levels, which is important in any relationship. The gap is purely from this problem. I can lie to myself and her, and fake my way into fitting a mold that suits her, but that's just not cool.
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