[ENFP] I really want the encouragement from you.

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    I really want the encouragement from you.

    I,a final-year student, decide to confess my feelings to an ENFP girl. I think she has a boyfriend though she always tries to hide it. She doesn't know that I love her and she never had any signs that she wants a romantic relationship with me. My chance is probably 1%. But I will never see her again after next 2 weeks and I think I have to do this. This is not an attempt to make her love me, I just feel I will regret later if I don't do this and I want to have a beautiful memory before I graduate. I don't want to make her awkward and I will find the best way to help her understand my purpose.
    (Sorry for the broken english.)
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    Send her a profound obituary.

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    Do it, get it out of your system, if it's not too work out it will at least be a way to end that story for you instead of wondering "what if?" Later down the line. It sounds like there's nothing to lose, not doing so you could lose yourself in this unrequited spiral. Clear the air and you never know, that 1% chance is still a chance.
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    @NVH -- Hahaha I actually just did this to an INFP man! Same situation, he had a girlfriend but I needed to get it off my chest (to be fair I wouldn't have tried to start anything with him, but I just HAD TO KNOW). He rejected me, and strangely enough, after the initial embarrassment I wasn't hurt by it-- I was happy that I had been completely honest and I knew FOR SURE how things were between us. It could be that I didn't like him as much as I thought I did, seeing as my response was so incredibly mellow, but I am much more at peace with out the "what if's" floating around my head and eating at my heart. PLUS, I secretly felt like a boss A** B**** afterward for facing my fear of rejection, having that fear realized, and then being just fine.
    Last edited by Yayni; 06-07-2018 at 08:54 PM.
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    @NVH . How did it go? Do it! 🙂

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    Quote Originally Posted by NVH View Post
    I,a final-year student, decide to confess my feelings to an ENFP girl. I think she has a boyfriend though she always tries to hide it. She doesn't know that I love her and she never had any signs that she wants a romantic relationship with me. My chance is probably 1%. But I will never see her again after next 2 weeks and I think I have to do this. This is not an attempt to make her love me, I just feel I will regret later if I don't do this and I want to have a beautiful memory before I graduate. I don't want to make her awkward and I will find the best way to help her understand my purpose.
    (Sorry for the broken english.)
    1. You can't make anyone love you. Sorry I never went to my husband to force him (make him) love me. Just puts a bad taste in my mouth.

    2. She's with someone.

    Other than that if this is harmless and you're not forcing her to like you and not stalking her then yes let your feelings be known. Let her chose what she wants, if it's not you don't force her. And don't get but hurt if she friend zones you. It will happen when it happens and if it doesn't move on. Like everyone else said get it off your chest, let her know your feelings, be crystal clear about it, and let her make the choice.
    Last edited by NIHM; 06-08-2018 at 09:56 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NVH View Post
    I,a final-year student, decide to confess my feelings to an ENFP girl. I think she has a boyfriend though she always tries to hide it. She doesn't know that I love her and she never had any signs that she wants a romantic relationship with me. My chance is probably 1%. But I will never see her again after next 2 weeks and I think I have to do this. This is not an attempt to make her love me, I just feel I will regret later if I don't do this and I want to have a beautiful memory before I graduate. I don't want to make her awkward and I will find the best way to help her understand my purpose.
    (Sorry for the broken english.)
    maybe write a letter

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    Get it off your chest so you can move on
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