I've been spending a LOT of time in a group with an ENFP. A little while ago whilst drunk she came onto me (I feel like I sensed some vibes but originally wanted to stay away for reasons of my own), we kinda made out and fooled around at my place. Problem is, now I think I've caught some feelings, and when I went to talk to her about it she says she feels platonic about it. That would be cool, but the thing is, that normally I 100% trust my gut with the introverts I normally go for, and it's been going haywire picking up on signals from her this past week. Occasionally when I happen to catch her eye I swear I can see that "look" in her eyes but it's only fleeting and I'm not sure to trust it. I'm so used to relying on my gut totally that I don't know what to make of the situation since obviously her signals are different from an introvert's (being an ENFP myself I know that, but my intuition apparently doesn't lol). When she gets close to me I swear I feel some vibes, but I'm taking her word for what she said previously.
I mean, even though it feels like we've gotten close quite quickly we've only known each other a short time that's the other thing. We also may be living together soon for a number of months, I dunno the whole thing is blah and I'm trying to get a foothold over myself.
It's been a while since I've been this exposed to someone, I usually feel more comfortable being more in control, and this girl is probably about as assertive as I am which is also something very different, we are quite similar in a lot of ways but she's younger by a few years and has a younger outlook.
It's been years since I've done this, but this is kind of just a vent and an open request for useful perspectives. Thoughts? Lay them on me.