there's definitely an attraction with those who can match our energy.
However, I believe that attraction doesn't have enough staying power in terms of working relationships.
I would probably not date another extrovert.
I would honestly try to date my opposite, or near that.
Right now, I have this attraction to an ISTJ, there's definitely a different connection than the usual NF's, I like NF's but... I think there's a tendency to lead to co-dependence....
However, there are great rewards, especially in self development, when dating your opposite as long as there's mutual respect for each other and learn to support one another.