This is a discussion on Questions to an ENFP on absolutely ANYTHING :) within the ENFP Forum - The Inspirers forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; Originally Posted by YLTO Inside their own heads? oh really? c'mon give example! don't they ENFP like to partying and ...
I do like to party, and often do so. However I also like quiet time alone and with my INTJ. My INTJ is fine with me partying without him, and I'm fine with his not being interested in partying a lot. Both of us like each other exactly the way we are. We also trust each other. He knows that when I'm out partying, I'm not picking up other guys. I know when we're not together on a weekend night, he's sitting at home alone watching TV or playing computer games, not seducing some other woman.
Sometimes on weekends, I'll go out partying and then will spend the night with my INTJ, cutting my partying time shorter than I normally would so I could get to my INTJ's by 11 pm or so. When I say, "partying," I'm referring to dancing and socializing and perhaps getting tipsy, but not getting drunk. My INTJ and I had a nice recent weekend night when we went to a show with an ENFP/INFP couple who are our mutual friends, and then went out to dinner.
I wasn't talking about online tests, but about other people thinking of me as such. I took a professional one a week or so ago.
Record stores, small family farm markets, ice cream parlors, places that sell cute stuff...we're everywhere, though. I think it would be easier if you said what you like to do, then I can tell you if ENFPs in general match.
Reading, watching good TV shows, movies, MUSIC, but nº 1 is: talking to other people.
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Most ENFPs I've met (including myself) are actual hipsters. We're mostly ahead of the curve and resist the mainstream. An example: it took me three years to watch Lor of The Rings because I absolutely hated how overhyped it was. I was 11 at the time, mind you. It never changed.
Yes, the smile thing is real. I'm not one to smile at strange people, but I smile to myself all the time and it attracts a lot of attention.
Don't trust the "social butterfly" title too much. ENFPs are the most introverted of extroverts, unlike ESFPs, it sometimes takes a while for us to warm up to people. And we do love to spend time alone, ESFPs would preffer to jump off a building
I do love partying, but only with people I know and like, or at least simpatize with. And no alcohol or smoking, please.
Not at all, I'm the only one I know who dresses like this. and though people take the micky because of it.
They also say they really miss it, if I dress normally.
When I had a mutual crush with a girl (it never developed)
I pictured my entire life with her.
Down to marriage, raising a child, dying at an old age.
It's silly but it's something I did.
I was dumped by my first girlfriend about 8 months ago.
And I've probably imagined the situation 100 times since then. as I wish I had done things different when she dumped me (Mainly just telling her to stick it where the sun don't shine)
I constantly have a sort of monologue in my head, though I assume most people are the same.
I'm just constantly imagining situations of how I want different things to go.
As far as parties go... personally I don't like them. but I've only been to one.
Which was a typical party I think, underage drinking, people smoking weed, music too loud to talk, people getting naked.
And as I don't drink, don't smoke. and don't strip.
Needless to say I hated it.
[Reading, listening, observing, speculate on things, analyzing, watching documentary, watching lecture, movie (rarely, it depends on the genre), music] <= and all the activities I spend is at home. lol
is it like this? (found from google)
A hipster is someone that doesn't really fit into the mainstream, they listen to bands you don't know of and have unique hobbies.
At least that's the original kind of terming. now it's a bit of a derogatory term because there are so many people trying to avoid being mainstream...
That they're becoming a cliche and a parody, these are the kind of people that want to dress like hipsters. so they buy $60 vintage t-shirts (kind of nullifying the reason for vintage clothing)
Another thing is fake hipsters lose interest in something when it becomes big. you'll find they love a song when it only has 200 hits on youtube. but the minute it's playing on the radio they act like their precious baby has been stolen
Despite the fact that musicians need recognition to survive.
The word “party” does not imply alcohol. Society does ties the two things up these days, has for a long time actually, but there’s no real connection.
"Having fun” and “enjoying oneself” is about being sober, if you need to get high then you have no idea of what real joy is.You like the exact same things I do (With the exeption that music is my life and I love to dance). See, it doesn’t all comes down to type.[Reading, listening, observing, speculate on things, analyzing, watching documentary, watching lecture, movie (rarely, it depends on the genre), music]I usually see ESFPs pegged as the most, but I’ve always been called generous, sometimes exceedingly so. But in general, I think so.is generosity their trait too?
is it like this?
Don't beleieve in anything Tumblr or UrbanDictionary tells you about hipsters. I beg you.
I'll post the best hipster description I've ever encontered. It's actually the results of a test I took:This is what a hipster is. It has nothing to do with plaid shirts and glasses!!!Some people may think you're a geek only to find out that's not exactly true. You're more of a dilettante.
You have many areas of culture, academics, and even geekdom that you're interested in. But your knowledge is wide - not deep.
You are often ahead of the curve when it comes to trends, and you're bored by whatever you're into once it becomes mainstream.
You are mainly interested in what is culturally underrated or forgotten. You gravitate toward the indie and bohemian.
You like to live an artistic lifestyle. You rather work to live than live to work... you seek meaning.
You could be interested in anything at any given moment, and it's likely you have a weakness for music, photography, and writing.
I'm sorry, I'm not angry at you, but after years of seeing airhead kids throw hipsters name in the dirt, it takes its toll