This is a discussion on Questions to an ENFP on absolutely ANYTHING :) within the ENFP Forum - The Inspirers forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; Originally Posted by cake *joins in on the hug train* *tackles and hugs lizabeth, fepa, ai.tran.75, aya, and crumbs* Its ...
In any case, I agree with Ai about you choosing the medium that feels most comfortable for you. You're wanting to communicate genuine feelings on your part, so don't feel like you have to own his response to the way that you choose to communicate that.
I would be straightforward with him, whichever way you choose. Let him know what it is that he did that hurt you, and that while you understand that he's going through a rough time, and that you are trying to help him, you can't allow yourself to be treated that way. And let him know that when he's ready to work it through, you'll be willing to work it through with him (I'm assuming that that's the case given that you are wanting to reach out to him). He might not be able to see his wrong in it right away, but give yourself time to look after yourself. Don't make this all about looking after him and his feelings.
Being a student is awesome isn't it?!
PARTY TIME! <3
Today I made THREE new friends, we all swapped numbers and everything. After take part in some random Samsung dunk the mobile phone challenge. So proud of myself xD
Used to have insane depression/anxiety but not no more!
I can't wait because Halloween is coming up. House parties galoreeeeee :D
*passes FePa another bottle*
Drink up my love, the night is young. Woo!
I wouldn't advise this approach at all with someone who is already upset about something else.
Maybe do nothing, and when he reappears on your social scene say *then* that you found his remarks hurtful...I dunno.
I have a serious issue that I need help with... which is probably why I don't get out often and go to the movies... but I have honestly no idea what the right answer is in this situation...
At the movie theatre...
... Which arm rest is yours?