INFP here - I met this ENFP girl about 6 months ago and fell for her quite hard. She's absolutely amazing: she's confident, artistic, open-minded - your typical ENFP, and I love that! We went on a few dates and I had a great time and it seemed like she did as well.
But here's where things get a bit weird: she said she can't see me for a while because she has a lot of stress at the moment, but that it wouldn't change "the way she feels about me". I understood what she was going through and told her to let me know when things settle down a bit.
We haven't talked in a couple of months (btw she lives kind of far away) so I decided to reach out again - it seemed like she was happy to hear from me and we actually met again after a while. But I started losing hope, because even though we've been having all of these amazing conversations, we never took things further..
She knows I like her because she found out I wrote a poem about her. But I'm confused whether she would want to take things to the next level or not. After our last meetup I stopped messaging her because I thought she wasn't interested. But lately she's been on my Instagram a lot, tagging me in a photo that reminded her of one of our conversations from months ago, liking my pics (she didn't really like a lot of my pics before) or reacting to my stories.
So, I guess my question is: does any of this mean anything? Is she trying to start a conversation again, does she want me to message her? Or should I just move on without ever finding out "the way she feels about me"?
My problem is that she hasn't turned me down yet - she has to know I like her, I may not say it directly, but I wrote a poem, bought her flowers, invited her out for dinner, etc. Is it normal for ENFP's to stay silent instead of hurting someone's feelings?