This is a discussion on Why Do ENFP and INTJ Relationships "Blow Up"? within the ENFP Forum - The Inspirers forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; Originally Posted by Llyralen @ Moby85 Ask her out again today, I'm serious. Since she gave no negative indication, she ...
Whom you call to make a "pseudo-study" to confirm your own observations.
Either way, perhaps your brother never let himself and his emotions loose with the females he had.
Or perhaps enneagram instinct (me being Sx first) makes a difference in that I can not relate in the slightest to what is described above.
I honestly rather dislike the stereotype of INTJs being cold at heart and incapable of emotional attachment.
High Se is sexy and relatable. Only difference is that they're more pragmatic and present than us.
High Si while grounded are also subjective past data that they view as "facts" giving them this insufferable know it all attitude that makes me want to wring their necks.
That's supposed to be the same kind of dichotomy.
This pairing is an option, right? But I think it's smart of people to get educated about the type they are dating. What's the point of MBTI unless you use it to help in relationships?
Basically for the same two reasons other relationships blow up, either:
1) One or both people need/expect things the other is not equipped to give
2) Poor self awareness leads the relationship down unhealthy vicious cycles and patterns.
MBTI is not a prophetic tool, it's just an abstract set of guidelines.