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    My mind doesnít generate any violence at all, let alone violence I would commit. Itís actually a problem for my Viking books.... My mind doesnít go there.
    I wonder if my husbandís does? I donít think so, actually.
    @Fru2 has been in some tense situations I believe in the military.
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  2. #12
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    It takes a lot to get me mad, dehumanizing treatment is one, intent to injure is another. When I snap it's typical yelling rage with profanity. Hate to say it's uncreative...

  3. #13
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    Quote Originally Posted by Llyralen View Post
    My mind doesn’t generate any violence at all, let alone violence I would commit. It’s actually a problem for my Viking books.... My mind doesn’t go there.
    I wonder if my husband’s does? I don’t think so, actually.
    @Fru2 has been in some tense situations I believe in the military.
    Might be a 7 trait of avoiding thoughts about negative stuff. I normally don't think those things, but when hate takes over it's better to let the steam off through experiencing the thoughts and feelings by myself first. I think it's healthy to be aware of what one could possibly do. I was feeling much prouder of myself afterwards for having a clear judgment about it all. Nothing close to it happened in the military luckily. Besides, it's very impersonal there so it's hard to be anywhere near mad with someone I don't know. I usually get mad with people who I've given respect and let me down with corrupted values and the wrong treatment of me. But that has happened less than a handful of times in my life.

    If I'd say that I couldn't picture violence I'd be lying. I could imagine anything.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fru2 View Post
    Might be a 7 trait of avoiding thoughts about negative stuff. I normally don't think those things, but when hate takes over it's better to let the steam off through experiencing the thoughts and feelings by myself first. I think it's healthy to be aware of what one could possibly do. I was feeling much prouder of myself afterwards for having a clear judgment about it all. Nothing close to it happened in the military luckily. Besides, it's very impersonal there so it's hard to be anywhere near mad with someone I don't know. I usually get mad with people who I've given respect and let me down with corrupted values and the wrong treatment of me. But that has happened less than a handful of times in my life.

    If I'd say that I couldn't picture violence I'd be lying. I could imagine anything.
    There was a good thread on us and darkness a while back. I remember bringing up a documentary I had just seen on child molestation as an example to discuss the idea of being able to empathize or understand darkness and criminality. It was a good discussion, really deep.
    I donít know, itís interesting where our minds go and what we decide to act on. There are lots of psychologists studying that as far as I can tell
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    I get pretty internal when mad (Fi), just snippy if your messing with me
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    I know Iíve been mad, so why am I having a hard time remembering instances? I also find that interesting... and would anger have to do with Enneagram like @Fru2 wonders? Itís a good question. The burn of having hurt feelings is so much longer and stronger than anger for me. It is interesting. I think I might start a thread on Enneagram and emotions in the NF forum.
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    When I'm really angry I will basically sit you down and start yelling about all the reasons why your ways of thinking / acting are unacceptable. I will dissect it all - and you have to accept each part so I know you understand and take responsibility. On top of it I will tell all the ways why their personality is flawed and what they need to work on. It is swapped Ne+Te. I also tend to swear/curse a lot.

    Things that make me angry are unreasonable people, simplistic reasoning when accusing someone, injustice, questioning my intent, not behaving appropriately in public, disrespecting old people or basically fragile people in general.

    Additionally I will be passive aggressive towards you for a week after to remind you of all the tiny things you do/did wrong until you go insane. Usually mirroring their behaviour works for most part.


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