Hi guys! My brother is an ENFP (I got him to take the test which he called 'stupid' and 'a waste of time'). I've always been very curious about my brother's character and personality, and I find him incredibly mysterious and difficult to figure out.
At home, he shuts himself in his room 80% of the time. He hardly communicates with anyone, unless he needs something. He is extremely quiet. This has led the family to think that he is rather introverted.
However, at school, he is extremely popular with his friends, talks quite a fair bit and is basically the opposite of what he's like at home. He is very active within his social circle and goes out a lot.
Is there a reason for this? I'm actually very sad that I can't establish a proper relationship with my brother because I find it so difficult to communicate with him. We can't get along too well, because I find that while he is a good listener, it is very hard to get him talking about himself. I really want to know more about him, but he's like a hermit and he just refuses to talk about himself and his feelings! Please, please, please help me.
Any advice will be appreciated of course :-)