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This is a discussion on Out of all extroverts, why do ENFPs have the easiest lives? within the ENFP Forum - The Inspirers forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; Originally Posted by MarioAndLuigi Out of all extroverts, why do ENFPs have the easiest lives? We all know extroverts have ...

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    Out of all extroverts, why do ENFPs have the easiest lives?

    Quote Originally Posted by MarioAndLuigi View Post
    Out of all extroverts, why do ENFPs have the easiest lives?

    We all know extroverts have the easiest lives, but why do ENFPs have the easiest lives out of all extroverts?

    Hmm ... I don't think we have the easiest life but I believe stereotypically we're the type that are most enthusiastic about living our life.
    But a love for living doesn't necessarily mean our life's the easiest. Just look at Maude from Harold and Maude


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    Last edited by ai.tran.75; 06-06-2014 at 04:59 AM.
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    I agree with the general consensus that appearances can be deceiving. Thinking of the two ENFPs I know, they're bubbly and charismatic and a little bit crazy, so it's hard to imagine that people might dislike them or they might struggle with life. But underneath they're fighting the same battles as we are, and in fact I can tell you for sure that my ENFP sister has a tougher time with other girls being jealous than I ever did. At least I was just weird. :P

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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Quote Originally Posted by MarioAndLuigi View Post
    Out of all extroverts, why do ENFPs have the easiest lives?

    We all know extroverts have the easiest lives, but why do ENFPs have the easiest lives out of all extroverts?

    This just made me go:

    ?!?!?!?!

    My physical health is in the toilet. I would give you a list, but I don't have to, so I won't. It's long. Very long.

    My mental health is in the toilet. I would give you a list, but I don't have to, so I won't. It's long. Very long.

    I lost all my friends at the beginning of my adolescence, and lived in such a rural area, that I had no one, and began to die inside. I spent my 13th year thinking about nothing but killing myself.

    My family is constantly on the edge of breaking down, and I have been through past trauma that necessitated me being in counseling for years, just to be able to cope and function. If you're thinking I just magically bounce back, you've got another thing coming.

    I grew up in a trailer that was falling apart, and frequently didn't have access to running water, central heat, or AC during 115 degree summers and five below winters.

    Who the hell are you to say my life has been 'easy'?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lati View Post
    This just made me go:

    ?!?!?!?!

    Who the hell are you to say my life has been 'easy'?
    Please pardon the intrusion here, as this thread doesn't pertain to me. But:

    YES. What @Lati said.
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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    We don't. We can just be real good at putting on a convincing front.

    Shit happens to everybody. If it hasn't yet, it likely will.

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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Quote Originally Posted by ElliCat View Post
    ?..they're bubbly and charismatic and a little bit crazy, so it's hard to imagine that people might dislike them or they might struggle with life.
    Sadly, many hate us because​ we are so bubbly and seemingly care free. Sigh.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MarioAndLuigi View Post
    Out of all extroverts, why do ENFPs have the easiest lives?

    We all know extroverts have the easiest lives, but why do ENFPs have the easiest lives out of all extroverts?


    What makes you think this is true?


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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Sorry for the double (or even triple?) post. At the time, there was no evidence that the post went through. So, I tried again. Oops!


    Quote Originally Posted by ElliCat View Post
    Thinking of the two ENFPs I know, they're bubbly and charismatic and a little bit crazy, so it's hard to imagine that people might dislike them or they might struggle with life.
    Sadly, many dislike or distrust us because ​we are so bubbly and seemingly care free. Go figure.
    Last edited by Zster; 06-08-2014 at 12:28 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zster View Post
    Sadly, many dislike or distrust us because ​we are so bubbly and seemingly care free. Go figure.
    Believe me, I know.... it seems jealousy plays a big part in that. :(

    It's one of those crazy things though: I'm criticised for being unapproachable and seemingly arrogant and unfriendly and people don't understand why I don't SHOW that I'm a soft gooey fluffy mess inside, so I look at, say, my younger ENFP sister and see how quickly most people seem to fall in love with her.... But then when she goes to school other girls start drama and guys give her a hard time for being too flirty/not available enough/too airheaded and while I didn't exactly have an easy time at school either, it just goes to show that all those qualities I thought I lacked won't solve my problems.

    Your introverted brethren still love you though!! Come to us for hugs!! <3
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    ISTP - The Mechanics


    Quote Originally Posted by Zster View Post
    Sadly, many hate us because​ we are so bubbly and seemingly care free. Sigh.
    And some of us LOVE you more than you can know for exactly the same reasons!

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