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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Fellow ENFP's do you experience...

    Pannic-Anxiety attacks-

    problems talking to large groups-

    holding grudges-

    allergies-

    significant weight gains and losses -

    Daydreaming-

    problem letting others be angry with you without trying to fix it...AKA letting others have their negative feelings-

    problem finishing goals/dreams-

    craving to travel-

    wanting to go your own way to investigate while on vacation, and having others fallow-
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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Pannic-Anxiety attacks- Maybe when I was younger.
    If I get one now, it won't last more than a minute

    problems talking to large groups-
    If we're talking public speaking, I can either completely wing it, or strenuously prepare a damn fine presentation. Anything in between will turn out horribly.

    holding grudges-
    Naw, not my schtick.

    allergies-
    Penicillin, all mammal saliva save people and horses, lots of pollens, dead grass, dust mites....

    significant weight gains and losses-
    Once after first year. Lost around 40 lbs. Can't remember why, but I'm back to my normal weight now.

    Daydreaming-
    My art of choice.

    problem letting others be angry with you without trying to fix it...AKA letting others have their negative feelings-
    I like to think that I could just sit back and let someone be angry at me, but I'm never just going to sit by when there's tension and conflict in a relationship. You know... for their sakes.

    problem finishing goals/dreams-
    Oof, constantly. It's probably why I only bother with short term dreams these days.

    craving to travel-
    Yes! I've been good at satiating it too!

    wanting to go your own way to investigate while on vacation, and having others follow-
    Not necessarily. I never really want to go my "own way" so much as I want to go the way that I think the group will enjoy most.

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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Panic-anxiety attacks - Check, though I'm working on it.

    Problems talking to large groups - Rarely. If I'm ever in that position, then I'm inspired. If I'm inspired, I can talk for hours.

    Holding grudges - Never. I'm ridiculously bad at it. :/

    Allergies - None that I'm aware of.

    Significant weight gains and losses - None so far.

    Daydreaming - All the time.

    Problem letting others be angry with you without trying to fix it...AKA letting others have their negative feelings - Usually yes, though I've learnt that some people just need to fix themselves without me poking my nose there.

    Problem finishing goals/dreams - Sadly yes.

    Craving to travel - Absolutely!

    Wanting to go your own way to investigate while on vacation, and having others follow - I go wherever I want. People don't really have to follow me for me to be happy. :)
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    ENFP - The Inspirers


    Pannic-Anxiety attacks-
    yeah, when I'm really stressed out. I had a lot of them during my senior year of high school. my chest would get really tight, I'd have trouble breathing, I'd start flipping out mentally, etc.

    problems talking to large groups-
    it depends on the group. if it's people I like/feel comfortable with, I'm fine. like this one time at a con (ohgod "this one time at a con" is almost as bad as "this one time at band camp") I ended up part of a dating-panel thing (you know those old dating shows where the woman asks some guys who are hidden by screens or whatever some questions, they try to give witty answers, etc? it was that kind of thing, and I got volunteered by my friends during the "HEY ANYBODY WANNA PARTICIPATE" portion of the panel). so I had to bullshit in front of all these people, and I was totally awesome and hilarious and asjfksdf it was super fun and I won some chocolate body paint for my troubles. SO YES, if I'm talking to ~*~my people~*~ (200 anime-loving strangers at a con panel, a group of friends, whatever), I'm fine. if I'm talking to people I don't like, I get really uncomfortable, but I can still talk to them in a seemingly-confident way.

    holding grudges- nahh.

    allergies- in the spring, yeah. I'm really sensitive to poison ivy, too. I'll break out in a rash if I even go near it, and if I touch it I am in such deep shit nnnnnghhhhh :c

    significant weight gains and losses - no.

    Daydreaming- always.

    problem letting others be angry with you without trying to fix it...AKA letting others have their negative feelings- uh... I guess? I don't like it when people I love are angry with me, so I try to appease them, which makes some of them way, wayyy angrier, so it's kind of a vicious cycle. I usually end up just leaving for a few hours and letting both of us cool off.

    problem finishing goals/dreams- yeah. :(

    craving to travel- YYYESSSS there's a reason I want to learn 2832983 languages, man. I wanna go to Iceland and Latvia and Germany and Italy and France and Japan and Ireland and Canada and and and ANNDDDD /insert fifty billion other countries here

    wanting to go your own way to investigate while on vacation, and having others fallow- not really. I mean, I don't try to get people to follow me.
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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    [email protected]! good topic.. timely too!

    Pannic-Anxiety attacks- just started getting these recently.. had a few episodes.. thought i was having a heart attack... went to hosp.. did tests.. whew ok!!! don't know WTF is up with that tho.. starting so late in my life (I am 50)

    problems talking to large groups- nope... but never had a huge audience.... guess panic could set in tho!

    holding grudges- well... first to mind is my ex husband.. for the years of emotional abuse... and am almost over that.. I don't hold a grudge as much as not let the offending person EVER into my life again... so... yeah lol I guess so... but it has to be pretty bad to be considered... as I have huge issues with someone being angry/sad/mad at me.

    allergies- seasonal but not too bad... pollen, in the early spring

    significant weight gains and losses - touchy, touchy one... yep am always trying to lose as I am significantly overweight (i usually blame my meds and depression in my previous marriage..now I am just lazy grrrrr)

    Daydreaming- as per essay...... hobby/habit of choice.. all my best thoughts come from there!

    problem letting others be angry with you without trying to fix it...AKA letting others have their negative feelings- I can't let that happen, I am always trying to placate/fix/ whatever.. I hate that and have a terrible time with conflict... i get physically sick

    problem finishing goals/dreams- yes... I am an ENFP to my very core! I am an avid needleworker and have a WIP list (works in progress) of over 50 items... don't even GO THERE!!!!!!!

    craving to travel- On my to do list... hence daydreaming... I plan to do lots of it (even in my mind)

    wanting to go your own way to investigate while on vacation, and having others fallow- guess that can be considered a compliment.. i also walk to a different beat, as does my new man!!!
    Last edited by crzysttchr; 09-16-2010 at 04:22 PM. Reason: ooopsie had to fix lol
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    ESFP - The Performers

    Panic-Anxiety attacks- Not really, only if things get really bad. In times of stress I withdraw from whatever is stressing me and it usually goes away. When it keeps piling on and on for weeks, then I may have a panic attack.

    problems talking to large groups-Yes, unless I know most of the people in the group, they're younger or older than me or I have one close friend with me. Otherwise I get too self-conscious.

    holding grudges- I think I matured out of this one. I'll be nice to the offending person but I won't let them get too close again.

    allergies- Nope, except for seasonal stuff.

    significant weight gains and losses -
    No, I've been at a normal weight or slightly under all my life.

    Daydreaming- If I'm not interacting with people, then I'm doing this. Usually about being with people.

    problem letting others be angry with you without trying to fix it...AKA letting others have their negative feelings-
    Yes, I react too much, usually making things work. Or I completely shut down, and things get worse later.

    problem finishing goals/dreams- If they wouldn't keep switching, I could get one done! I'm on a pretty steady road to becoming an equine professional, probably an instructor, but what if that's not what I want to do?! Ahhh, the dilemma...

    craving to travel- Yes, but that will happen after I marry Mr. Rich-Husband. Yes, I'm a bit shallow...

    wanting to go your own way to investigate while on vacation, and having others follow- That's kind of describes my whole life: wanting to do what I want to do and having everyone else just fall in line. Because my idea is fun, but I still want good company. Usually, my plan gets forgotten so I can have company.
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    Pannic-Anxiety attacks:
    Yes but due to PTSD so...

    problems talking to large groups:
    I don't like it at all, but I guess it gets easier with practice. Also, there are few people that wouldn't have trouble talking to large groups.

    holding grudges:
    Never.

    allergies:
    No =D

    significant weight gains and losses -
    Yes, because I'm a control freak and I deal with stress by controlling what I eat insanely.

    Daydreaming:
    All the time.

    problem letting others be angry with you without trying to fix it...AKA letting others have their negative feelings:
    Generally if people are angry with me I let them be angry cause it's their loss.

    problem finishing goals/dreams:
    I don't know...

    craving to travel
    I'd like to travel but I'm not super keen craving.

    wanting to go your own way to investigate while on vacation, and having others fallow:
    No. I don't like investigating on holiday. I get too anxious. I prefer to stick to a pre determined schedule and not stray from the path. Sounds boring, but straying makes me rip the skin off my fingers =D
    Last edited by Danse Macabre; 09-16-2010 at 08:28 PM.
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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Pannic-Anxiety attacks-
    Not panic attacks, but I do have anxiety. I wouldn't say I go into full blown attacks but I do get very anxious at times.

    problems talking to large groups-
    Not at all. I actually love it.

    holding grudges-
    Sometimes. I will hold the grudge until I talk to the person again, then I am pretty forgiving. If a person does something to me and that is my last memory of them, I probably will hold a slight grudge.

    allergies-
    Not really.


    significant weight gains and losses -
    not really.

    Daydreaming-
    Not as much as other ENFPs do.

    problem letting others be angry with you without trying to fix it...AKA letting others have their negative feelings-
    Oh no, I have to try to fix it. I might say "whatever, I don't care," but I DO.


    problem finishing goals/dreams-
    yes. motivation and follow through are huge issues with me.
    craving to travel-
    yes

    wanting to go your own way to investigate while on vacation, and having others fallow-
    yes.
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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Pannic-Anxiety attacks-
    In high stress situations.. I had one in an exam- which problly explaiins why I did badly :/
    problems talking to large groups-
    If you mean public speaking then no. That's a skill, although I do enjoy doing it. If you mean sociallly, I prefer group situations- I feel more comfortable in groups.
    holding grudges-
    Nope. Sometimes I feel things are unforgivable, but ill end up forgiving them anyway.
    allergies-
    Nope.
    significant weight gains and losses -
    Yeah I yoyo between 12-13st. Chronic eating then chronic exercise and dieting.
    Daydreaming-
    Try to keep this to a minimum. I think daydreaming too much is unhealthy.
    problem letting others be angry with you without trying to fix it...AKA letting others have their negative feelings-
    Yeah. Don't like tension-stresses me out.
    problem finishing goals/dreams-
    Yep. Most often because I realise they weren't a good option to start with.
    craving to travel-
    Yep. Its not so much travelling as "exploring". I have the same urge even locally.
    wanting to go your own way to investigate while on vacation, and having others follow
    Not just on vacation, just in life in general. Actually I usually get ppl to come with me.
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    Unknown Personality

    Panic-Anxiety attacks-
    In high stress situations, like Tridentus said.

    problems talking to large groups-
    No.

    holding grudges-
    No.

    allergies-
    Yes.

    significant weight gains and losses -
    No.

    Daydreaming-
    All day, everyday.

    problem letting others be angry with you without trying to fix it...AKA letting others have their negative feelings-
    Depends on what role they play in my life.

    problem finishing goals/dreams-

    Definitely. My worst flaw.

    craving to travel-
    Yes. There's a lot of places I want to visit.

    wanting to go your own way to investigate while on vacation, and having others fallow-
    Yep.
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