Don't get me wrong the looks are great but he's the complete package. He's a perfect geek. He also met me when I was 80 pounds heavier and loved me. Plus I was going through cancer at the time. Cancer and steroids make you gain a lot of weight. They don't tell you about the number of steroids you have to take to save your organs after treatment. We've been best friends for a while. Though I think I was the first girl to not look at him like he was a piece of meat. I just enjoyed his company when gaming online. We both love comics, fantasy, sci-fi, sci-fi fantasy, and gaming. Again, he's a nerd at heart and I guess I saw that about him. Also, I didn't try to cage him and he opened up to me. INTJs are hard as hell to gain their attention. Like they either think everyone is annoying or they might find you fascinating. He has three best friends along with me. An ENFP male (gamer), ENTP male (a mutual BF for both of us), and another INTJ male. He's even starting to like my best friend who is engaged now to his brother, ISFJ. He's happy I introduced them.
Anyways, yeah I adore him. He also happens to be fit but he doesn't feel the need to rub that in anyone's face. He just enjoyed his personal moment when he found out he was 7th. I don't mind it at all when other's like him, I just beam with pride. Best friend and an amazing partner. We can talk for hours about everything. INTJs can become very chatty and open when they're with the right people.