This is a discussion on What pisses you off about ENFPs? within the ENFP Forum - The Inspirers forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; Originally Posted by marzipan01 Why not? lol. Seriously, I want to stand up and defend you from all the hate ...
This thread is terrifying. X_X
The only thing that annoys me are people who pretend to be enfps.
Each type is designed with a purpose to contribute in some way to society, so in all retrospect, there are no 'flaws' in types. One type may dislike factors in another type (or even their own type) but that comes down to personal preference. In our healthy states, ENFPs are well rounded, balanced individuals. The same can be said about any other type for that matter.
HOWEVER, Unhealthy ENFPs can get very frustrating and hard to deal with. This includes ones with an under-developed Te. They can become impulsive, manipulative, moody, illogical and somewhat narrow-minded. Its these few that can cause others to make such generalisations about us.
I can think of several perceived flaws in me personally as a result of my ENFP traits but that's more individualised and won't necessarily be reflected in the next ENFP.
Wasn't there a thread about this not to long ago? I think there is actually a couple of them to be honest.
Here is one I found in the INTJ board if you are interested: https://personalitycafe.com/intj-foru...out-enfps.html
People are almost always surprised when they tell me something they've never told anyone before after only a few days of knowing each other, I'm never too surprised as I've been hearing that my whole life. And an old friend of mine (ENFJ) always described me as someone who is simply well liked by everyone because I'm amiable and laid back. I don't add any aggression, I kind of mellow a room out or make it really excited.
Nonetheless, there are flaws, no less than any other personality type and by society's standards, probably more so in our type. But we're just well liked when healthy and still well liked when a bit unhealthy, however can lead to a bad experience (such as being unreliable). Maybe a psych evaluation wouldn't work out so well, though. I'd say I'm a pretty healthy person but I think they'd try to pin me as bipolar if I were to get an eval.
So damn flaky.
(taking this thread completely light-heartedly, by the way)
i think this thread has every right to exist. Maybe there are other ways to ask this question while avoiding any mention of MBTI TYPES. Maybe Marzipan01 is too bored and could be doing something else more productive because I know I worry too much about my mistakes, but who cares? let's entertain her without trying to call her an idiot in a classy and/or intellectual way because doing that makes you idiots anyways.
It annoys the fuck out of me when I drop out of a conversation because I started thinking about what other people are thinking about me.
It annoys the fuck out of me when a good friend won't tell me my flaws/weaknesses upon request.