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This is a discussion on What pisses you off about ENFPs? within the ENFP Forum - The Inspirers forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; So, I'm just curious if anyone wants to chime in. What is it that is annoying about ENFPs to other ...

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    What pisses you off about ENFPs?

    So, I'm just curious if anyone wants to chime in. What is it that is annoying about ENFPs to other types?
    I wonder why no one has ever complained about ENFPs before? There is a thread devoted to what annoys you about ENFJs...probably started by an ENFP.

    So, just curious...keep in mind these are just generalizations and can't be claimed as true or defining characteristics of the ENFP.
    Just, if you have something to say that you've noticed annoys you about ENFPs you know, feel free to say it.

    I'll start:
    -Indecisive
    -Going with the flow without passing judgement on their actions or asking any questions about where that might lead them
    -Speak without thinking about how their words are heard/read/interpreted by others
    -Make broad sweeping generalizations that are stated as facts such as, "Are you drunk?" so clearly accusing the person of being drunk. Why would you ask a question like that at 7:30 AM? Haha.
    -So interested in what is interesting, not interested in anyone's thoughts or feelings
    -Need for pleasure surpasses backbone/self control
    -Unreliable



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    toooo optimistic/happygolucky sometimes, ehe..

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    ENFP - The Inspirers


    Quote Originally Posted by marzipan01 View Post
    So, I'm just curious if anyone wants to chime in. What is it that is annoying about ENFPs to other types?
    I wonder why no one has ever complained about ENFPs before? There is a thread devoted to what annoys you about ENFJs...probably started by an ENFP.

    So, just curious...keep in mind these are just generalizations and can't be claimed as true or defining characteristics of the ENFP.
    Just, if you have something to say that you've noticed annoys you about ENFPs you know, feel free to say it.

    I'll start:
    -Indecisive
    -Going with the flow without passing judgement on their actions or asking any questions about where that might lead them
    -Speak without thinking about how their words are heard/read/interpreted by others
    -Make broad sweeping generalizations that are stated as facts such as, "Are you drunk?" so clearly accusing the person of being drunk. Why would you ask a question like that at 7:30 AM? Haha.
    -So interested in what is interesting, not interested in anyone's thoughts or feelings
    -Need for pleasure surpasses backbone/self control
    -Unreliable

    Are you talking about yourself here? You are not interested in anyones thoughts or feelings?
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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Quote Originally Posted by marzipan01 View Post
    -Indecisive
    -Going with the flow without passing judgement on their actions or asking any questions about where that might lead them
    -Speak without thinking about how their words are heard/read/interpreted by others
    -Make broad sweeping generalizations that are stated as facts such as, "Are you drunk?" so clearly accusing the person of being drunk. Why would you ask a question like that at 7:30 AM? Haha.
    -So interested in what is interesting, not interested in anyone's thoughts or feelings
    -Need for pleasure surpasses backbone/self control
    -Unreliable
    I don't feel like any of these apply to me. I judge all of the decisions I make, try to figure out where I can do things better next time, or see my motives behind each thing, what I did well, why I might have sabotaged myself etc. I don't worry about how others interpret my words because I don't know how they will interpret them so I have to trust my own judgement, I avoid generalisations, I AM interested in others thoughts, infact I get paranoid when people won't share their thoughts and feelings with me because I think they think poorly of me or are making fun of me in their head, or I'm irritating them and I would say I'm fairly reliable, if I say I will do something, I will do something, unless its for my mum because sometimes I'm too tired or I just say I will do something to shut her up- I don't like mundane tasks. I do have trouble with self control though.

    Why are you hating on your own type?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Eye of the Potato View Post
    Are you talking about yourself here? You are not interested in anyones thoughts or feelings?
    Hahaha, i loved the way you called the creation of this thread , 3 hours ago ;) Oh my our Ne is in overdrive today ;P and who said ENFP weren't physic ; D

    What she really meant to say its " What pisses me off about ENFP"....Opps, i think we have a typo ; D

    EDIT: Hum, i'm sensing a plot to pin the ENFP against each other here. The smell of manipulation is quite rotten at this moment. Stinky Stinky!!
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    ENFP - The Inspirers


    Quote Originally Posted by MuChApArAdOx View Post
    Hahaha, i loved the way you called the creation of this thread , 3 hours ago ;) Oh my our Ne is in overdrive today ;P and who said ENFP weren't physic ; D

    What she really meant to say its " What pisses me off about ENFP"....Opps, i think we have a typo ; D
    Sad but true. I did call it. The clues were all in the thread dedicated to me.

    Well I'm off out, my man summoned me to give him some lovin!

    Goodnight and don't be too hard on her now.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Eye of the Potato View Post
    Are you talking about yourself here? You are not interested in anyones thoughts or feelings?
    I consciously worked on it. I noticed I was doing it because my ENFP best friend--it's hard for him to stay focused on anyone or thing in particular. So if someone is talking, I'm listening to them while he's running around with his shirt over his face singing drunken melodies. He's entertaining but sometimes I've noticed it prevents him from any true form of intimacy.
    And yes, all these qualities are things about myself and other ENFPs I know. It's true. I work on them because I legitimately care about people. I just think it's fair that if there is a: things I dislike about ENFJ thread, there should be one about the ENFPs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chickydoda View Post
    I don't feel like any of these apply to me. I judge all of the decisions I make, try to figure out where I can do things better next time, or see my motives behind each thing, what I did well, why I might have sabotaged myself etc. I don't worry about how others interpret my words because I don't know how they will interpret them so I have to trust my own judgement, I avoid generalisations, I AM interested in others thoughts, infact I get paranoid when people won't share their thoughts and feelings with me because I think they think poorly of me or are making fun of me in their head, or I'm irritating them and I would say I'm fairly reliable, if I say I will do something, I will do something, unless its for my mum because sometimes I'm too tired or I just say I will do something to shut her up- I don't like mundane tasks. I do have trouble with self control though.

    Why are you hating on your own type?
    Why not? lol.
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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Don't judge a group by one person. That would make you guilty of making generalisations. This thread really pisses me off. Also, I'm pretty sure someone else started a thread by the same name, maybe it should be stickied.
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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    I think there is not much to hate about a healthy ENFP personally.
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