Love Me If you Dare (2003)? F*cked up ESTP and ENFP couple.
Julian is text book estp- he lives in the moment - understand his surroundings and is excited by challenges and dare - it feeds his adrenaline to the point that after Sophie kissed him - he couldnít help but say ďgameĒ in wanting to win the challenge in that moment - which causes her to storm off .
Originally Posted by AnneM
His dare on Sophie is clearly in the moment / itís not planned out for years to come ( low Ni) he often time get lost in the moment due to impulsive behavior that it effects negatively towards his future focus
He doesnít have inferior Se he has dominant Se
Heís extremely in tune with his immediate physical and he is frequently seeking new experiences, stimuli, or acquaintances-
He used Ti - could care less for rules - he create his own rules - and is often motivated by the prospect of rewards and status ( he canít get over the fact that Sophieís husband is better than him and is constantly challenging himself ) heís in love with Sophie but have a hard time admitting it bc whatís in losing ?
He lacks Te- his thoughts are kept within - nobody know what he is thinking - he creates and play with systemic logic since he was a child - he creates things in the moment and enjoy compelling others
Sophie is an enfp Ne-fi
She lives and gain energy through connecting ideas - look at her dare on Julian Vs his towards her -
It was always derive from an idea of something- and sheís at her happiest when sheís able to express herself through connections she finds - sheís not an fi dom -
She uses fi sure - but itís in an aux position - she canít go as far as Julien in nearly having her run over by a train - her te tert provides facts for her Ne - she plans and execute things sure but itís within objective matter - also Te is her relief function not her inferior - she strives during stressful situation- she speaks her thoughts aloud ( Te) so that she can gain exterior knowledge- yet keep her emotions within ( fi )
She is haunted by her past and canít seem to escape it when sheís at her worst - sheís gets repetitively unwanted thoughts crossing her mind when she soaks emotions in . She canít get over Julien not could she get over the fact that he referred her to the game they played . (Inferior Si)
Any type can be selfish - function describes how ones mind work . She enjoys playing the game to show her mentality is better than his ( Ne) and pretty much living her life to revenge him( inferior Si - she is trapped in the past )
Both of these characters are toxic - I find him more crazier than she is - the movie was meant to be random - hilarious- realistic yet abstract - itís pure enjoyment for an Neís mind - one idea leads to the next and the next - the ending is subjective.
Isfp and intj are not selfish either / however theyíre not playing opposing functions with one another
Both are Pe Dom .
Youíre not suppose to take the movie seriously- after all its dark humor - guess itís more suited for an Nps mind .
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