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Sx last vs So last awkwardness

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#1 ·
All is in the title.

Both so last vs sx last would probably look awkward in some social situations, however i'am wondering how would this look for each stacking? How a so last would look different from a sx last?

I'am wondering especially for an 4w5.
 
#2 ·
I mean, all IVs are prone to being super awkward in social situations, socializing sucks lol. If you're focusing on so blinds and sx lasts though, you'd probably also have to look at syn and contraflow appearance as well.

sp/so: Is awkward because they're very slow to share information about themselves with others. For the socially unkeen, this can manifest as just generally awkward starting and maintaining conversation.

sp/sx: Either shares too much information about themselves too quickly or refuses to share any information at all. Sometimes brash in speech too I guess.

sx/sp: .... Actually I've never met an outwardly awkward sx/sp, they seem to feel awkward on the inside before it shows on the outside. Someone who actually has this stacking could probably provide a better response here.

so/sp: Somewhat unsure about how much information about themselves they're supposed to share or how they'll come across to others, so can appear awkward. Genuinely wants to be liked by certain others, tends to try different social things even if they feel unnatural to them
 
#5 ·
sx/sp: .... Actually I've never met an outwardly awkward sx/sp, they seem to feel awkward on the inside before it shows on the outside. Someone who actually has this stacking could probably provide a better response here.
I'm sx/sp. I'm not socially awkward. I've never met a sx/sp (or any sx dominant) who is socially awkward. I can read social cues. My social blindness is more in not seeing the inherent value of groups and not instinctively seeing how power structures within them play out.

I can fit into social groups easily if I want to, up to the point of authenticity/realness anyway -- fail that and then we must part ways. Comically (or tragically) I seem to still seek intimacy in groups in this sense (honesty -- a form of connecting). Without that I don't see the point. Also 'group think' creeps me out. There can be a depth mismatch. Although I'm not awkward at small talk, internally I'm dying.

With some fellow sx dominants I can throw out the earnestness, say triple things in half sentences and leave understood things unsaid since the (chemical) connection can be effortless, beyond words and we share common views/values. It can be so easy, so alive, so free in a way it never is for me with someone sx blind.

Fwiw my sp/so (sx blind) father isn't socially awkward either. He's better at small talk than I am and seems most comfortable interacting at a shallow depth (he doesn't form deep relationships). I wonder if how social other aspects to personality play into it. He's enneagram 6 (613) ISTJ where I'm a 5 (513) INTJ. I assume things only get awkward for him if a romantic partner became frustrated or someone is expecting him to open up.
 
#3 ·
edit to add: just my thoughts, just for fun :D

so-last: over there angsting in the corner, ignores social cues, seems to be living their own separate plotline, blunt (without specifically trying to be blunt), wants to connect but doesn't want to/know how to go through steps, might be weirdly earnest




sx-last: innocent-ish, assumes equality of relationships without taking into account feelings/attractions, not in on the flow or the vibe, strange out-of-place sex jokes, business-like demeanor




sp-last: over-sharing, too much flood of energy, like puppy way too excited about things, doesn't check boundaries, seems naively disconnected from reality

 
#7 ·
Dare said:
I'm sx/sp. I'm not socially awkward. I've never met a sx/sp (or any sx dominant) who is socially awkward. I can read social cues. My social blindness is more in not seeing the inherent value of groups and not instinctively seeing how power structures within them play out.
I believe myself to be sx/sp, but I'm very socially awkward and completely blind to social cues. I think this is all individual and not connected to instinctual variant but other factors such as upbringing, social experience, social anxiety, etc. Of course, I could be wrong about my instincts - but I don't think I am.
 
#11 · (Edited)
I define awkwardness as a trait that is rooted in how you are being perceived by others rather than in who you are. I can tell you that I do feel awkward at times but others often perceive me differently. That being said, as an so-blind type myself, I cannot tell you how this awkwardness comes across. It's in the eye of the beholder.

But, there are qualities that I've observed in sx-lasts that may or may not boil over into awkwardness depending on the context and how the person plays things off. They tend to come across as very tightly wound and controlled (but not necessarily like they're "holding back"), almost unnatural, but not necessarily insincere (that would depend on the person), sometimes smooth but not very "flowy," often polite but with a businesslike quality to them. They're certainly not what I would describe as raw - they're whatever is on the opposite end of the spectrum. At worst, the more reserved ones and the sp/so types in particular, seem a little robotic to me. The more outgoing ones tend to be more playful (especially when the dominant instinct is so).

I will point out that I've never met a socially awkward so/sp. Some of them could check every single point I've mentioned and still somehow come across as rather charming.

EDIT: Just remembered something I've noticed in some sx-lasts - while many of them tend to be incredibly private, others tend to share information about themselves freely if they find it useful in context. I don't know how to explain it other than that it seems that they put the intimate stuff and the impersonal stuff in the same mixing pot, and I don't think they even realize that they do it.
 
#41 ·
I'm 4w5 so/sp.

Sx last for me always made me cringe at college parties when people played drinking games that revolved around sharing their most explicit sex stories, then the question would get turned to me and I would gulp in fear and say something like "Never have I ever been on a hot air balloon?" And I would kill the whole vibe by bringing up something innocent and non sex related.

And being an Fi-dom who wants intimacy Sx-last seems to get in the way of getting intimacy. Like when I am in a group, my So can catch who the head honcho is, and also what's missing in the group and what unique thing I can bring to the table, I cna find my niche in a group so to speak, which is fun, but in a group it can't really get past the surface because not everyone can know you deeply, and I feel like trying to reach out to individuals when I'm in a group, 1. I feel bad because I'm not treating everyone fairly and people might think I'm partial to other's over others and 2. I feel like if I try to get intimate with someone it's like too much, or inappropriate like people don't care to know you that much. And sometimes it's hard to find the topics to dive deep with so I ask stupid surface questions hoping the person just bites on something and unloads themselves to me.

My Fi seeking intimacy and my Sx last not knowing how to get the intimacy causes me to try and get help from people who reach out on that intimate level.

Me being So first, if I'm being honest, fitting into a group most of the time just happens by accident for me, if I stand still for long enough then BAM I'm in a group. But intimate raw encounters with one perosn, man, usually when I am drunk it all comes pouring out, all the things I can't and don't say when my mind is right lol. But I do love those moments because they are so rare.

@Flower Hat
"I wonder if, for example, there may be so/sp types who'd grown up with very strong attachments to certain people in their lives and had at times found these attachments overbearing or something and thought that they took away from what they perceived as more important things, such as in securing your place within a social network (or whatever it is the social instinct does). "


Idk. As sx-last I feel like being considered someone important in a social group is on my mind so much that I forget I need intimacy, but there is this subconscious feeling that I need to take care of that part of my life also because it's so neglected, and when I do have a close bond with someone it doesn't feel overbearing though, but perhaps it feels extra special than it should since it's not really common, rare in fact, and maybe the sx person is like "I have deeper relations with other people than you, this is normal for me." While I'm sitting there like, wow I've never felt this before lol.

I knew an ENTP woman, she was like a mother to me, I imagine she was sx first, very blunt often saying things that disrupted or disturbed the group, unintentionally causing strife, but when we spoke it was like a little bubble between us and everybody was gone, and one time she said goodbye to our group as she was leaving and she just came and hugged me without saying goodbye and just put her head on the side of my head and just rocked with me hugging for like a 3 straight minutes. The feeling I felt was akin to a piercing white light on my insides, knowing I had been singled out of the group like that because she saw me differently than the others. Very life giving feeling to say the least.

I also remember when my seasonal job ended, in our group of co-workers I had solidified myself as the funny outgoing guy (even though really introverted outside the group). I put on my social butterfly hat and chatted up various co-workers so each person would get a feel for who I was (in the group). And it worked, but after awhile it just seemed like I didn't want to make friends with any one person and I just wanted the majority of people to think I was cool, (I did and it mostly stemmed from the fear of looking socially awkward, I wanted to show that I wasn't). At the end of my seasonal job, I realized, I would never seen these people again, and I had made no strong bonds or meaning for relationships, and my seasonal job felt so empty and pointless, like I spent all this time with these people and none of them really know me and I don't know them, they were in my life and now they are gone, I felt like trying to connect with people on the very last day would appear inappropriate and sort of desperate. No meaningful goodbyes, not even empty promises of hanging out.

Idk. I fear alot "Am I ever gonna feel that with someone." And I have felt that with people, but like I mean are they gonna be around for good.

I also don't think upbringing influences instincts, I think you just recognize your instinct through how you choose to handle or react to something.




I define awkwardness as a trait that is rooted in how you are being perceived by others rather than in who you are. I can tell you that I do feel awkward at times but others often perceive me differently. That being said, as an so-blind type myself, I cannot tell you how this awkwardness comes across. It's in the eye of the beholder.

But, there are qualities that I've observed in sx-lasts that may or may not boil over into awkwardness depending on the context and how the person plays things off. They tend to come across as very tightly wound and controlled (but not necessarily like they're "holding back"), almost unnatural, but not necessarily insincere (that would depend on the person), sometimes smooth but not very "flowy," often polite but with a businesslike quality to them. They're certainly not what I would describe as raw - they're whatever is on the opposite end of the spectrum. At worst, the more reserved ones and the sp/so types in particular, seem a little robotic to me. The more outgoing ones tend to be more playful (especially when the dominant instinct is so).

I will point out that I've never met a socially awkward so/sp. Some of them could check every single point I've mentioned and still somehow come across as rather charming.

EDIT: Just remembered something I've noticed in some sx-lasts - while many of them tend to be incredibly private, others tend to share information about themselves freely if they find it useful in context. I don't know how to explain it other than that it seems that they put the intimate stuff and the impersonal stuff in the same mixing pot, and I don't think they even realize that they do it.
Yup. That's exactly how I feel. Alot of the times I put on the charm in fear of looking socially inept though lol. I have reached some incredible heights of charm all due to fear lol. Cause you know, you don't want to be that guy that everyone thinks can't hold a conversation to hold his life #SOproblems lol.

But yea, I used to be a wall flower, then I saw how much people make fun of people being a wallflower, so I realized I didn't want to be made fun of so I try to resist being a wallflower by engaging with various people in the group to make it look like I'm cool and not a wallflower. But I secretly want to reach in depth with someone but fear that no one really cares enough and i would make others uncomfortable to get to that level. But then when someone does get to that level with me sometimes it's not the person I want to get in-depth with and they just sort of unload on me, and I'm like, I want this but not with you looooooool. Like I want it with someone who means something to me.
 
#23 · (Edited)
Sp/So - SX-last is that guy that's sitting in the group of everyone else, listening with a nodding head, smiling - adding empty - but interesting things to the convo willingly or out of turn, but ultimately has their arm(s) folded tightly with very dark shades, with an attire that blends to the etiquette of the group.

Awkwardness, (for myself anyhow), may be demonstrable when (everyone) start(s) sharing/seeking personal stories like the SX-wet dream kumbaya. SX-last may not contribute on their turn, struggle with it - or remove themselves.

SX-last is basically playing poker with everyone. Hidden in plain sight; and aware. Is that awkward.. I dunno. I reckon for those struggling with "why is that guy all dressed up and here, if they just want to watch and skip their turn to share?" ... The point of (poker) is not to get caught in the bluff.

The baldies are myself daily.



I can see some specimen(s) finding them awkward; but it does not feel like it to them.
 
#24 ·
Dude, you're stealing my words. I never feel awkward and want to never cause awkwardness in others. As for the SX-last guy in the pic, everyone knows Obama, everyone notices the cool ones with shades, do you even see the bearded guy with no shades? He is part of "the group", yet not part of it, he's just there fitting in and not fitting in at the same time. Difficult to notice because of the not at all obvious traits. He's not trying so hard and pulls it off regardless. But do notice he dress exactly like the "alpha" (Obama) in the pic making him melt in comfortably.
 
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#25 ·
Sp/Sx - So last:

I am most awkward when numbers increase, or when I'm with someone I cannot connect with - I say 'connect with' rather than strangers, because I do have direct family members whom I cannot be with without feeling awkward - or if they are a stranger and I cannot bond or resonate with them, it's like I see them as no more than thin air. I am notblind nor oblivious to social cues: I'm very much aware of them,subtle or not; but there is usually an instinctual inner thought of“Do I want to engage myself?” rather than instinctively actingupon the cue, which is probably the charismatic approach most people would take. Sometimes I feel that after one conversation withsomeone takes place, that's enough socialising to last a long time, days, weeks, that I'd probablyavoid or pretend to be oblivious to anything to not engage anotherconversation.


I'm always determined to not reveal too much about myself, which probably makes my speaking habits rather deliberate, direct and clinical, maybe even robotic – I suppose it's an all ornothing - and tend to almost control conversations in order to keep the topics off of myself. If I do happen to engage in conversation, it's because Isensed that conversation can lead somewhere worthwhile, and that I have eithersomething to learn or to contribute to help the lead, so I willwholly dedicate myself; however, if we're talking small talk or you're not remotely interested in what I have to say, I'm notgoing to engage nor attempt to keep the talking alive – I'll ensure myanswers are worded blatantly enough to not cause offence, and to notprovoke more questions fired my way – I don't want to know why "Monday and Tuesday is really your weekend, because those are the daysyou get to yourself", as someone told me in a shop. I don't care.


IfI feel I have revealed too much about myself, I tend to detach fromeverything around me for a while and not make contact with anybody, as if I'm afraid I'd given the code to get through to me. It doesn'tseem to matter who they are, family, friends, or strangers: they allof them experience my sudden withdrawal when yesterday I seemed socommunicative! Perhaps I come across as moody when I feel too exposed, and because of this, I'm very, very selective with whom I open up to. If anything, I push people away more than I pull them in -- by mistake or design (usually the former) -- and have counter-intuitively ruined many a friendship because of it. I want connection with one ideal person, but then when they're too close, I back away ... it's an ongoing cycle, and it's quite pathetic - although, I'm a bit better at it than I used to be, and no longer hide in public when I see people I know ... wait, I still do that.

Most of what I wrote was about groups and talking amongst them, which I find a waste of time and energy, because I know I'm not going to engage my voice. Groups of three I find to be the most ideal - almost too ideal to be true, like a literary tale. Any more than that, and I feel like a spare part that's never going to get used.
 
#27 · (Edited)
You said in another post @Catwalk, 'spills the beans with a straight face'. It is the unintentional result of not being aware of awkwardness at all, want to have that safe distance to people, at the same time trying to hide the distance. Instead of putting ethical and moral values into the situation it becomes a game whereby the SX-last is pretending to know these values. I want to keep up with the social environment around me, blending in, keeping straight face, avoiding unnecessary attention to me, avoiding putting the spotlight on someone else, but I DO want others to acknowledge I'm in the same mood even thou I'm not. Ultimately I'm so caught in this weird poker game that I literally can, completely non-awkwardly drop my pants and shove a dildo up my arse like it is nothing to be upset about. Figuratively speaking. In all honesty I probably would be able to pull that stunt off in the right environment if no one intervenes.

What happened today was I bought workclothes. Got help by the clerks to find shirts and pants, I asked for X-Y-Z, talked, got comfy with them, joined their convo about shoewear at work and I found myself slamming my left leg on the (1,2m high) counter saying "I bought these [there]... good quality for no money at all... what you should look for is XYZ when buying shoes you intend to stand in all day". I still don't find that awkward thou. Did out my knowledge about footwear and my physical agility.

I have no words for this. This is a sign of a weakspot? Other SX-lasts here: Do you ever get embarrassed?
 
#28 · (Edited)
You said in another post @Catwalk, 'spills the beans with a straight face'. It is the unintentional result of not being aware of awkwardness at all, want to have that safe distance to people, at the same time trying to hide the distance. Instead of putting ethical and moral values into the situation it becomes a game whereby the SX-last is pretending to know these values. I want to keep up with the social environment around me, blending in, keeping straight face, avoiding unnecessary attention to me, avoiding putting the spotlight on someone else, but I DO want others to acknowledge I'm in the same mood even thou I'm not. Ultimately I'm so caught in this weird poker game that I literally can, completely non-awkwardly drop my pants and shove a dildo up my arse like it is nothing to be upset about. Figuratively speaking. In all honesty I probably would be able to pull that stunt off in the right environment if no one intervenes.

What happened today was I bought workclothes. Got help by the clerks to find shirts and pants, I asked for X-Y-Z, talked, got comfy with them, joined their convo about shoewear at work and I found myself slamming my left leg on the (1,2m high) counter saying "I bought these [there]... good quality for no money at all... what you should look for is XYZ when buying shoes you intend to stand in all day". I still don't find that awkward thou. Did out my knowledge about footwear and my physical agility.
LOL. This post (((surely))) made me laugh, indeed. I realized recently, I can either talk loudly - or quietly. By accident, as well. Not in an obnoxious manner - but I can tend to be a little loud and blunt with just enough tact to squeeze by, so talking in this manner with a poker-face makes specimen(s) react with "that 'you're kind of weird' face".

An associate of mine find(s) it gut-clenching humorous that I can speak so frank/outlandish with a straight face. I think she is some form of ISFJ - SX instinct. She is very very kind, very (Fe). Very soft-spoken, very careful, very, very, very sweet genuine personality. Every time I talk I see she pulls back in this confused/innocentish way; but also mixing it with genuine laughter - that signals perhaps that I put her off, but that is absolutely alright. I can tell she find(s) the way I casually discuss things/conduct myself, just plain awkward, while I do not find it that way. That for her, it is awkward when I will just strike-up a conversation with her about some stuff out of thin air - and she makes the kind, happy "wtf" face - at how I casually discuss things.

I remember once, we hadn't spoken in awhile, I just randomly asked her what kind of birth control she uses as an intro. No beginning or after dialogue. She was paralyzed (&) did not know how to answer. Just stared with big eyes. She is another [female]-humanoid, right, that is all I were really thinking about. I had to rephrase it quite a few times to make her more "comfortable" in answering.

I have no words for this. This is a sign of a weakspot? Other SX-lasts here: Do you ever get embarrassed?
I do not feel lot(s) of embarrassment, either. Never felt it in social settings; or in things like public speaking. I can feel it - but it comes from some SX-instinct person. It seems the SX-instinct can either run myself the other way or make me red in the face.

The thing(s) that would normally embarrass someone else, do not embarrass myself. Some years ago, I fell down a flight of step(s) once on a crowded walk; and everyone was staring and laughing. I stood up with a straight face (&) kept walking. Felt nothing. To myself, "shit happens". It is like they never see a humanoid fall before. SX-last has gotten myself into accidental sticky-situations; once being placed (mistakenly) on suicide watch for just talking, too 'openly', of suicide with specimens that would find it offensive.
 
#38 ·
I imagine myself to be a sx/sp; so so-last. I can do well in smaller groups, do social cues fairly well, etc.
My weakness lies in handling large groups. In some sense I think sx-instinct counterbalances the sp-instinct when dominant.
That allows for less awkwardness I believe.

I imagine: so instinct deals with many people, sx with one or a few, sp only with oneself.
So a sp/sx only gets this counterbalance to a smaller extent and may be less oblivious to social cues; thus being more prone to "awkwardness".

Also, I'm not all about "how to hold hands", maybe me being a 5w6 counter-acts that.
 
#39 ·
I imagine: so instinct deals with many people, .
Your notion is correct. Why I labelled myself SO-dom is I have a "macro"-thinking when dealing with people. My basis of judgement lies in a big group, the median, the average. The individual can 'gtfo', to be blunt. I know by instinct how to get my will onto many people at once ie commanding crowds. I have little issues communicating with large groups. I dare to do it if I have a reason. My sense of hierarchies is powerful, "if I want X who do I really have to push on?" and I notice who is leading and who is following.

In 1-on-1 engagements all my social sense falls apart. I am lost and bewildered. "How do I ask a question?"-level of lost.
 
#40 ·
So/Sp is awkward in that it wants to connect, but overthinks how... may end up saying things it shouldn't and is prone to overanalyzing situations. Sp/So is awkward in that it may be protective over information, or it may get really excited and start acting like a performer on stage. It's funny and cute though. Both are unsure of how to go about Sx (using our underbellies to vibe with others), and may try hard to seem like they are sharing deep information when they are connecting, but may say it in a way that is prolonged or doesn't get taken seriously.

Sp/Sx is awkward in that it does not vibe with certain social structures, and may hold back in connecting to protect itself, but also due to a rather oblivious nature... you can't tell if it's genuine or provoked. Their holding back is not an issue of naturalistic capability like with Sp/So, or unsure of how to interact as with So/Sp, it feels more selfish. Sx/Sp can get awkward themselves and may feel uncomfortable in certain situations, but usually don't induce an awkward environment. Sometimes it feels like they have an internal conflict between their outside appearance and what they actually feel or want to do in that situation.

So/Sx is awkward in a cute way, honestly. Like it's never truly awkward, it can always be played off as innocent or endearing. May go off the rails and start spilling too much information, but usually they are actually more aware of themselves than Sx/So. In fact, Sx/So is awkward because it isn't afraid of standing out emotionally or in discussions. While So/Sx awkwardness can be taken as cute or random, Sx/So awkward can be taken as disruptive and even troublesome.

That's what I see
 
#66 · (Edited)
Well, after reading through this thread I can now say with 100% confidence that I am sp/sx like I originally thought I was, and just like Flower Hat mentions often happens on this board, I was yet another person who was incorrectly typed by others as sp/so due to the misconceptions revolving the sexual instinct - namely that sx-dom = high sex drive, YOLOness, and the like.

I am 29 years old, and have never really been in an intimate relationship, which of course was further "confirmation" amongst other folks that I am sx-blind. But the one thing I would stress is, this isn't because I am oblivious to the "pull" or desire to connect when possible, but rather because my strong awareness of boundaries seems to keep sabotaging my efforts. Basically, I've always found it difficult to take the initiative - to make a date, to be vigilant about calling on a regular basis, etc. - and consequently there just wasn't enough attraction to keep the relationship going. My crushes in college, it turned out for the most part, either already had their circle of friends or just got annoyed with my on, off, on, off cycle of interest in them.

I also realized that I was more contra-flow for this reason, too, as I can relate to feeling like my sx-secondary is like this inner nagging voice that doesn't work in tandem with my sp-primary, unlike a (Syn-flow) sp/so who can more easily fit into the social sphere and use networking to secure their sp needs. I'm sure being heavily Introverted is another factor too, though.

BTW, I've actually been in contact with Flower Hat through PM over this very subject for the past couple months, and she really helped me to blow away all the fog.

I think in my case it's made more difficult by the fact that my Dad and Mom are so/sx & so/sp or sp/so respectively, and so I've kind of learned to pretend to care about so-related things more than I do, as part of my Type 9 desire to keep the peace.

Honestly, there have been many times in my life where I feel like if I wasn't a 9, I would unintentionally hurt peoples' feelings and get into conflicts much more frequently by unwittingly saying weird and inappropriate things or using the wrong words to get my point across - and this still does happen from time to time. (Is having trouble with finding the right words to get your point across another issue with so-last?)

But yes, when I'm a group situation I have to break things down into one-on-one communication or I just don't know what to do. I find it very difficult to make small talk with a stranger without a good reason to do so, whether it be trying to connect on an intimate level, talking about a shared hobby or passion, or even just joking about the absurdities of my job.

And yes, my sense of identity comes very much from being an individual, rather than being a part of a group. I initially thought I was a 4w5 because of this trait of mine.

Even as a kid, my parents (and many of my teachers) were always struck by the difference between the way other students would display their participation in things like student organizations and team sports with pride, while I basically pretended those things didn't exist. And even today, my so/sx Dad still cannot understand why I don't want to join a hiking club or something of that sort to meet people who share that interest with me, no matter how many times I try to tell him that I like hiking solo because I enjoy immersing myself in nature, getting away from it all, and how everything I experience seems to be more vivid when I solo hike.
 
#67 · (Edited)
Something else I've noticed that I do, that I think might be a clear sign that I am more sx than so: I often incorporate the values and beliefs of those people that I feel like I "click" with, whether crushes or close friends or even fictional characters. Although, this doesn't happen automatically, and I can just as easily be repulsed by certain things I learn about someone, but rather it's more of an epiphany thing of shared values with another person.

To give an example: One girl I was attracted to in college, Valerie, told me that one of her biggest pet peeves is tailgating. Before I got to know her, I didn't really think too much of it, but then I realized how much I hated it too because of the attempted intimidation it involves, and nowadays, even though the two of us aren't seeing each other anymore, whenever I get an impatient driver riding my bumper I often think of that Valerie girlfriend I never had...

I've heard some people tell me that this is a 9ish kind of behavior, but is what I just described indicative of being an sp/sx 9 rather than sp/so? Because correct me if I'm wrong, but I would assume that a so-dom 9 would take on the beliefs of a group they identify with in a similar manner, rather than an individual person.
 
#69 ·
It's like me , my mom , and my sis. Me is 4w3 SX/SP , My sis is 9w1 SP/SO , and My mom is 1w2 SO/SP. But , i feel hot and cold with SO/SP more tbh.
Me as So blind here , find interactions too much are tiring tbh. And , i can't stand too much with small talks. And , usually. I talk in specific ways ( if , i want to talk ). And , my mom who SO/SP find me as rude. I'm completely blind to social clues and don't give a fuck about social niceties.
My mom and My sis are SX blind , and they just can do something like enlarge groups than do intimate relationship. But , coz that. They can do small talks. But , i can't stand to much with SO/SP tbh
And , the facts are they were closed with a lot of man , but they just did as a friend.
 
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