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This is a discussion on Type 1 and Type 3 ~ I wanna hear from you within the Enneagram Personality Theory Forum forums, part of the Personality Type Forums category; Hello 3 and 1 friends over here. I'm 5 but, as my curious nature (haha), I rarely any 3 or ...

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    Type 5w4

    Type 1 and Type 3 ~ I wanna hear from you

    Hello 3 and 1 friends over here. I'm 5 but, as my curious nature (haha), I rarely any 3 or 1 posted here and I wanna learn more about you guys! :D If anyone's free and wanna share can you share anything or answer below questions? (as your wish, you can skip some if you don't feel like you want to)

    1. Can you share some of challenges in life? about work? relationship? or family?
    2. How did you succeed or fail to overcome those?
    3. What's your ideal partner type? physically, mentally, professionally?
    4. How did you realize you're 3 or 1? any specific situation?
    5. What kind of people you get into conflict with the most?
    6. What's your hobby? or interest?
    7. Anything else you wanna share :D

    :D Really hope to learn more about you guys~



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    Type 3w4

    I'm 3w4 with 5 and 8 sp/sx

    1. Can you share some of challenges in life? about work? relationship? or family?

    Realistically speaking, the only challenge I find in life is to accept emotionality/vulnerability in myself. Due to life being made up of my goals and drive to kickass, I find that emotions are roadblocks that get in the way. It's not a fear in that sense, as I don't generally care about fear. I manipulate my image and behavior to serve a goal and attain validation. I don't like emotionality because it's not as easy to manipulate, and it's something you don't control the impact of. A thing to remember about image types (234) is that love is conditional, and must be earned. 3's do it by fixating on "objective" ways to be the best and earn the love that way.

    2. How did you succeed or fail to overcome those?
    I surround myself with emotionally adept people, I can then see how it works and try to get there myself. I stopped only selfishly pursuing my goals and work on helping people accomplish theirs.

    3. What's your ideal partner type? physically, mentally, professionally?

    I do incredibly well romantically with other assertive types (378), there's a connection on the fact that none of em' are particularly emotional/soft. Mentally, I do well with heads (567), I do a good job of slowing down their brains and allowing them to actually think with direction. Professionally, any of the competencys work really well (135), with 1's probably being the easiest for me to work with.

    4. How did you realize you're 3 or 1? any specific situation?
    No situation in particular, I had it ruled down to 3, or 8. I'm too goal driven, and have too much tact to be an 8. I don't do anything without motive or accidentally. 8's are reactive by nature and less focused, I saw the difference and saw 3 as clear.

    5. What kind of people you get into conflict with the most?
    People who make excuses and don't understand personal accountability. When they try to blame the world, or other people for their problems. Laziness is something I don't understand because, in my opinion, if you want something, fucking go get it. Otherwise you don't really want it.

    6. What's your hobby? or interest?
    I'm intensely interested in anything culinary and booze related, I find creating and improving food/drinks to be rewarding. I cook constantly, and I bartend. I do visual art and I'm a musician. I'm very extroverted and spend most of my time going out and meeting people. The world is fascinating and people are too, I love the whole thing.

    7. Anything else you wanna share.
    Not atm, but might edit something in later if I think of something.


 

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