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This is a discussion on 7w8 girl and 5w4 guy (write everything you know about this combination) within the Enneagram Personality Theory Forum forums, part of the Personality Type Forums category; Lol @ this ridiculous thread Sincerely, -a 5w4 male...

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    Lol @ this ridiculous thread

    Sincerely,
    -a 5w4 male

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    Type 5w4

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    Quote Originally Posted by Octopus1 View Post
    When I said I wanted your help, I meant how can I help him seperate love and sex, so that he can be happy.
    That's...that's not how it works.

    His orientation toward sex and love is just as valid as yours is. In this thread you've repeatedly maintained your right to nonmonogamy, and your right not to view sex and love as equivalent. I agree, that's valid. I view them more similarly to you, making little connection between sex and romantic love. But that doesn't make you (or me) more right than people for whom they go together. Just like you have the right not to be told what to do, or to feel and believe about sex, so does he.

    It's like...how can I convince him that peanut butter and jelly taste better if you eat them separately? You can't, it's his sandwich, don't tell other people how to make their sandwiches. And if you don't have the same taste, you probably shouldn't split one. This metaphor is terrible. My point was to try to relate it to a less emotionally charged issue to say basically--you're doing to him what you accuse him, and others, of doing to do. You're trying to control his way of viewing relationships, his taste, under the guise of "helping."

    You and the 5w4 guy are almost certainly not compatible. His idea of love includes a monogamous relationship. Your idea of love includes both nonmonogamy, and no relationship. They are opposites, they don't go together.

    I think the whole "no relationship" thing may be the real problem, not the differing views on sex. The guy wants a commitment, a relationship. You say you love him now more than ever, but you don't want any kind of relationship, at all. So how can this possibly work?
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