In the past couple months I've become interested in someone I believe to be an ENTJ, and I think the feelings are mutual. We kid around a lot in our spare time at school, and I've caught him a time or two looking at me when he thinks I'm not paying attention. He rarely talks about his interests, so I have a hard time starting a conversation with him without just using small talk. Once it gets going, we usually get past the awkwardness and we find something either funny or deep to discuss. He also told me I was "different" from other girls. I asked him if this was a good or bad thing, and in his typical aura of mysteriousness he said something along the lines of "Well, it's not a bad thing," and then stopped talking.
I guess I first have to ask if you think he likes me. If yes, do you think I should pursue it by asking him to go to a haunted corn maze with me this weekend? He's never talked for or against such a thing, but I've heard you guys like adventure, so I thought it might be a good ice breaker.
The main reasons I'm questioning this are:
1. I thought ENTJ guys were usually very forward with their intentions.
2. I'm terrified that if I make a move first and he rejects it that I might lose his friendship.
What do you think? Thanks!