Could someone give a more concrete, maybe a table or something, to show the differences? I mean I can more than half agree with both of them, and I feel as though I switch off between them periodically or constantly.
If it makes any difference:
I love to help people, seeing them smile gets me going
I feed off other people in a good way
I sometimes manipulate where things go in groups of people to do what I want, but it usually is a great experience for everyone, and if I don't get things my way, I hold no hard feelings
I rarely think of how to force people to do what I want
I love to notice all of the little things that everyone does and says without meaning to, and I usually use all that sensory input to my advantage.
I am usually a leader
I say things a lot of the time that can sometimes be taken as inappropriate for the circumstances but I do it so I can read someone else and see them on a deeper level without them noticing.
I do think that I am better than other people, and if people can see as logically or clearly as I could then things would be better, but I won't put anyone down because they have conflicting views with me.
I find that I either try to avoid conversations that i know i don't like the other person's viewpoint, or I will either (half and half on this one) listen to someone's view so I can give my opposing view or I will same them and little white lies will come out so I am more similar to them.
Hey sorry if that was a lot o take in! I am really new at this place and I am just trying to find my way hehe
(On a side note, I rewrote that line saying sorry like 6 times because I didn't know what would've been taken more appropriately)