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This is a discussion on Some question to ENTJ, from INFP within the ENTJ Forum - The Executives forums, part of the NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects category; Originally Posted by Nicali Oh so you guys answer those questions, but won't answer mine on my thread. I see ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nicali View Post
    Oh so you guys answer those questions, but won't answer mine on my thread. I see how it is. Jerks. Nah, I'm just kidding. I do have a question for you all, not a serious one, but here goes: What is your favorite movie/s?
    The Man From Earth
    Frozen
    The Dark Knight
    The Men Who Stare At Goats
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  2. #22
    ENTJ - The Executives

    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Canis View Post
    The Men Who Stare At Goats
    How coincidental: My fav movie is "Bio herds Da Sheep Bitches".

  3. #23
    ENTJ - The Executives

    1. The only types of feelings I can express easily are anger and frustration.
    2. When I flirt, that means I am already attracted to the target. My flirt is a goal-oriented behavior.
    3. Maybe I spend 5% of the day thinking about how I can minimize spendings and maximize savings.
    4. Yes.
    5. ?
    6. I think I like the INFPs I know.
    7. I don't think I will get hurt if he is only a crush. I think I would just move on, if nothing substantial has developed between the person and me.
    8. Please define "friend" and "leaving."

  4. #24
    ENTJ - The Executives

    Quote Originally Posted by Nicali View Post
    Oh so you guys answer those questions, but won't answer mine on my thread. I see how it is. Jerks. Nah, I'm just kidding. I do have a question for you all, not a serious one, but here goes: What is your favorite movie/s?
    This question are usually answered yes/no maybe that could be a factor. matrix, romeo and juliet braveheart

  5. #25
    ENTJ - The Executives

    1. Do you find it hard to express your feelings to someone about them ?
    Not if I'm close to them. Otherwise, I research the hell out of it to see the best way: interview people, look up on the internet, so that I don't get it wrong

    2. Do your flirt can ever mean that you are just attracted toward someone or you kinda like them ? I rarely sexy flirt with people I'm not attracted to.

    3. Do you always think about money ? Cost-benefit ratio to all my actions-it could mean time, usefulness, amount of fun to be had.

    4. Do you like to maintain life long relationships of friendship ? I am loyal forever unless you hurt me

    5. Are most of your friendships targeted on the saying "That everybody is useful, so never break it up with them" ? No, I interview for about 2 years or so and decide. Some I interview less long. I like to give most people a chance-there are so many facets to people. But, if our world views are markedly different and I can't learn from them, we won't be friends.

    6. Do you like INFPs ? Dunno that I know any. I'm easily annoyed by a single ENFP I know in real life (not you ENFPleasantly, honest!)

    7. When you find your crush dating someone else, and getting little intimate, do you get hurt so bad that you close all doors for them into that area of life, love ? Crush-no, we didn't initiate a relationship, so I don't get hurt. Cheating-you are dead to me.

    8. Do you cry, or feel bad if a friend leaves you without any particular reason ? Yes.

    Well, I'd like if only guys answer it. -why? more info = more learning.

    I'd like to give you major kudos for writing in this forum in the way we will understand and respond (standing ovation)

    To you others out there, look to @Allskyblue for an example.
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  6. #26
    INTJ - The Scientists

    Quote Originally Posted by Tea Path View Post
    1. Do you find it hard to express your feelings to someone about them ?
    Not if I'm close to them. Otherwise, I research the hell out of it to see the best way: interview people, look up on the internet, so that I don't get it wrong

    2. Do your flirt can ever mean that you are just attracted toward someone or you kinda like them ? I rarely sexy flirt with people I'm not attracted to.

    3. Do you always think about money ? Cost-benefit ratio to all my actions-it could mean time, usefulness, amount of fun to be had.

    4. Do you like to maintain life long relationships of friendship ? I am loyal forever unless you hurt me

    5. Are most of your friendships targeted on the saying "That everybody is useful, so never break it up with them" ? No, I interview for about 2 years or so and decide. Some I interview less long. I like to give most people a chance-there are so many facets to people. But, if our world views are markedly different and I can't learn from them, we won't be friends.

    6. Do you like INFPs ? Dunno that I know any. I'm easily annoyed by a single ENFP I know in real life (not you ENFPleasantly, honest!)

    7. When you find your crush dating someone else, and getting little intimate, do you get hurt so bad that you close all doors for them into that area of life, love ? Crush-no, we didn't initiate a relationship, so I don't get hurt. Cheating-you are dead to me.

    8. Do you cry, or feel bad if a friend leaves you without any particular reason ? Yes.

    Well, I'd like if only guys answer it. -why? more info = more learning.

    I'd like to give you major kudos for writing in this forum in the way we will understand and respond (standing ovation)

    To you others out there, look to @Allskyblue for an example.
    Well, your answers did make much sense, than many others :) ..and thanks.

  7. #27
    ENTJ - The Executives

    1. Do you find it hard to express your feelings to someone about them ?
    No, if I choose to express my feelings it is not hard at all. But I rarely do it.

    2. Do your flirt can ever mean that you are just attracted toward someone or you kinda like them ?
    I have a flirty personality so my flirts mostly means that I am enjoying myself and trying to have a fun conversation. However, if I am attracted or like someone then they will definitely notice it compared to my normal behaviour.

    3. Do you always think about money ?
    To some extent yes. I can spend a lot of money on having a good time, but this is because I already planned for it in my budget. If I know that I need to save for something, or that money is a little bit tight then I can become very strict with my spendings.

    4. Do you like to maintain life long relationships of friendship ?
    Yes, it is what I pursue. However I would never stick with someone if the relationship does not work, but I would put a lot of effort to repair it until it comes to that point. I think it is just easier to be very strict when meeting people. I can have a lot of superficial friends, but I'm very picky about who I "let in".

    5. Are most of your friendships targeted on the saying "That everybody is useful, so never break it up with them" ?
    No, if something does not work out it just does not work out. Of course I would try to end it on good terms, but I think it is more because I am a good person rather than that it is much more beneficial for me. However, I might be wrong on this one. ;)

    6. Do you like INFPs ?
    I do not know any INFPs, but I like intuitive people in general. Reading about INFP I think they seem interesting in the way that they are trying to improve their surroundings and finding their place in this world. However, I have very little respect for people that dislike conflict. I don't like fights either, but someone that would accept my arguments just to smooth things over is irritating.

    7. When you find your crush dating someone else, and getting little intimate, do you get hurt so bad that you close all doors for them into that area of life, love ?
    It really depends. If she does not have feelings for me, then I would see it more as a challenge for me, and it is strange to say but it would make it more interesting. If she has feelings for me, or we are developing something together then I would get extremely hurt and definitely never talk to her again. I'm not very vulnerable in general, but if I let someone in and they hurt me, then I will become very hurt and even vengeful.

    8. Do you cry, or feel bad if a friend leaves you without any particular reason ?
    I would never cry over something like that. If it was a good friend then I would be a little sad, but not that much. There are a lot of people in the world and if a good friend just would leave me without a good reason, then this person was not as much of a good friend as I thought. One has got to keep on living!
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  8. #28
    ENTJ - The Executives

    1. Do you find it hard to express your feelings to someone about them ?
    Yes I do, and for one simple reason: when I feel, I don't word. So I have a hard time trying to translate a powerful intimate experince into discourse.

    2. Do your flirt can ever mean that you are just attracted toward someone or you kinda like them ?
    It might be a cultural thing or an expansion on 1, but I can't see the difference between being attracted to someone and "kinda liking them". They sound like very similar experiences to me. What's the difference between liking something or someone, and being attracted to them?

    3. Do you always think about money ?
    I rarely do. I'm very happy to have a steady and well-payed job before me for as long as I want, as it helps me not having to think about money. In fact, it sometimes infuriates me when people say something is impossible because we don't have enough money. There's always a way to do what needs to be done, and money is nothing more than oil for the mechanism.

    4. Do you like to maintain life long relationships of friendship ?
    I'd probably like to. Not been very lucky up to now on that account, though...

    5. Are most of your friendships targeted on the saying "That everybody is useful, so never break it up with them" ?
    Not really. If someone is useful to me, there's no need to be friends - we will do stuff together anyway. Friendship for me, like any kind of intimate relationship, implies all involved to be able to live without it. If you need a friend, he's not your friend, he's a therapist.

    6. Do you like INFPs ?
    Probably. I like most people, and I like meaningful theoretical constructs, so it's a safe bet.

    7. When you find your crush dating someone else, and getting little intimate, do you get hurt so bad that you close all doors for them into that area of life, love ?
    No. But I tend to get drunk and make everyone involved ill at ease. I'm trying to change that.

    8. Do you cry, or feel bad if a friend leaves you without any particular reason ?
    I don't understand that question. How does one "leave" a friend?
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  9. #29

    Quote Originally Posted by Allskyblue View Post
    1. Do you find it hard to express your feelings to someone about them ?
    2. Do your flirt can ever mean that you are just attracted toward someone or you kinda like them ?
    3. Do you always think about money ?
    4. Do you like to maintain life long relationships of friendship ?
    5. Are most of your friendships targeted on the saying "That everybody is useful, so never break it up with them" ?
    6. Do you like INFPs ?
    7. When you find your crush dating someone else, and getting little intimate, do you get hurt so bad that you close all doors for them into that area of life, love ?
    8. Do you cry, or feel bad if a friend leaves you without any particular reason ?

    Well, I'd like if only guys answer it.
    I'm assuming that by "guys" you mean males, but I'm answering anyway - because maybe the female response will be helpful to someone else. :)

    1) Yes and no. I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve and my actions and body language communicate my interest pretty well usually (intentionally or not), but I do have a hard time verbalizing these feelings in as much as I insist on the guy being the pursuer in a relationship and I don't want to be too forward and become the initiator in everything. For male ENTJs I expect their go-getter-ness and goal-orientation would mean that if a girl met their requirements and they found her attractive then they would go for it. Admittedly, they would probably express this rationally, not using their emotional side at first. Just guessing though, since I'm not a dude.

    2) Yes, absolutely. I can sometimes accidentally send flirty messages to guys I'm not interested in, because I'm just enjoying the banter, but I do sometimes flirt with intention with people I'm actually interested in. Having said that, I tend to seek out deep conversations with someone I'm truly interested in, flirting can be a good way to gauge mutual interest before diving into the more serious stuff - or it can just be fluff on a friendship that is never going anywhere.

    3) Nope. I think about goals - some of which involve money - but most of which involve success in other areas that I find far more valuable. Money is only a means to an end - it pays the bills so I can spend time and effort on the things that truly matter to me.

    4) Yes, with the people I can, absolutely! I wish I had more lifelong friends, but I moved a lot as a kid, which I suspect hampered my efforts.

    5) Nope. More like, everyone is worthwhile and can teach me something and I can teach them something - so let's grow into more well-rounded and effective human beings together! (Admittedly, some people are just teaching me to be patient and understanding with people I have nothing in common with ;) )

    6) Sure! I like your whimsy and creativity and your emotional vulnerability is something I wish I had more of (believe it or not). But I dislike that your life seems to be centered on romantic fairy tale ideals rather than reality - mostly because I worry, for your sake, about what happens when the cold hand of life slaps you down. I also dislike you telling me that I shouldn't be so rational. I actively try not to completely discredit your feelings, so please don't be harsh with me for my logic. Just because I think differently doesn't mean I'm wrong.

    7) Not really, because I tend to break up with people I don't see a future with LONG before my emotions are that invested. The door slam is usually more an INFJ trait.

    8) Cry? Not really. But I do stew. I will wonder what I did, what I could do better, I will hunt them down and ask them if I have to. Contrary to popular belief, we are not heartless beings, we do have feelings and we do take social relationships very seriously. (We aren't INTJs - we believe in galvanizing a team and working together - which means we need/want to have positive relationships with people from many different types). We are extraverts and would not get our social fuel if we ran around driving away all of our friends. To say nothing of achieving our all important goals. ;)
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    1. Do you find it hard to express your feelings to someone about them ?

    It depends who, why and what. It also depends on how they'd like to receive that information. I don't tell my parents "I love you" but I demonstrate through action. Funnily enough, I can say it to someone as a joke.

    2. Do your flirt can ever mean that you are just attracted toward someone or you kinda like them ?
    Apparently I am very charming, so people confuse my gregariousness as flirting. Typically, I wouldn't waste my energy on someone I wasn't really attracted to.

    3. Do you always think about money ?
    No.

    4. Do you like to maintain life long relationships of friendship ?
    Yes, if it is worth maintaining. I'm not comfortable with keeping people around for sentimental reasons, especially toxic ones.

    5. Are most of your friendships targeted on the saying "That everybody is useful, so never break it up with them" ?
    Define "useful". I count loyalty, integrity and 'fun to be around' as useful so if they tick those boxes they can stay.

    6. Do you like INFPs ?
    I think so, until they try to finish my sentences. That's not romantic at all to me. Also - if I did type an INFP correctly - when they come to me for advice and then go do the total opposite. That was several hours of my life and healthy cells wasted on providing a strategy.

    7. When you find your crush dating someone else, and getting little intimate, do you get hurt so bad that you close all doors for them into that area of life, love ?
    No, but something in my darkest corner flicks on a switch to strategise how I might take this on as a challenge. I entertain the thought for a while then move on.

    8. Do you cry, or feel bad if a friend leaves you without any particular reason ?
    No. But I'd like to know if I was unknowingly careless and hurt them, which happens and requires a sincere apology. And if they won't respond that's OK, I did my part.


     
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