This is a discussion on What happens when an ENTJ gets betrayed? within the ENTJ Forum - The Executives forums, part of the NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects category; Originally Posted by ohTOMICho Who knows? No one has ever lived to tell the tale. -shudders- Its because we dont ...
I used to joke with coworkers, "Be careful, you're going to hurt my feeling", when I sensed some mutiny or betrayal. To which they would usually laugh - apparently at the notion that I may only possess few, if any feelings. True, but I protect those shriveled little raisins like a momma grizzly! Betrayal is personal, not business to me. The threat of incarceration has saved many lives - let's just put it that way.
What happens when an ENTJ gets betrayed?
Bad things I'll wager.
I'd probably feel stupid for a moment.
I'm really good with people, so I should've foreseen it.
And then I'd get over it.
I usually drop them like a bad habit and move on. I also kill people with kindness. Ill still talk to you, rub in all your f*cked up ways in your face and in front of people. Trust me. I can take your soul from you without even blinking haha. Showing any signs of vengeance just means they did get the best of me and thats not allowed in my book.
I do have an "I-dont-give-a-damn" attitude because I really dont. I look for benefits in life. If you betrayed me, it just proves youre not worth my time. Why waste valuable time seeking retarded ass vengeance when time is money and is valuable. I could care less if someone wants to betray me. Who the heck are they trying to hurt? It sure isnt me lol.
Depends on the context. But the general idea is that I will weight the cost and benefits of revenge and no revenge. Whatever works to be more beneficial to me is what I would do. Not particularly vengeful if there is nothing to gain; if there is something to be gained, then may hell be with you.
Last edited by FXGZ; 05-19-2011 at 07:48 PM.
I give them a chance to explain themself based on how much I value the friendship. After that, it's all situational. Up until now, nobody has been able to redeem themself.
I'm not an idiot, I can see through your lies biiitttttttch.
I wouldn't shut them off, that's stupid. I'd keep them in my life but I wouldn't look at them the same. My respect for them would fall immensely or become non-existent & I would not trust them.