I've been there my friend, but I guess thanks to my tertiary Fe I didn't have problems expressing my emotions (at the times when I had them) :)
Don't get me wrong, I am not saying you don't like talking about emotions, I am saying that for an ENTJ, it requires a lot of trust to unleash the deepest emotions and to be willing to talk to them. (perifery Fi) Now, you opened up and you were shut down! It must've been difficult for you. I am sorry that you went threw all of that.
If it makes you feel any better, here is my story about bullying (the title may be misleading), but maybe it can help: