[ENTP] If You're Attracted To Someone, Do You Usually Approach?

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    If You're Attracted To Someone, Do You Usually Approach?

    More often than not, would you say youre more likely to approach the person youre attracted to?
    I've noticed ENTPs are quite introverted for extroverts aside from the fact that they can really elaborate on shit. No offence.
    So I really wouldn't be surprised by either response in this situation.

    This is under hypothetical circumstances where signs of attraction from both end are neutral/ can't be certain if reciprocated or not- what are you most likely to do?



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    I am like a million times more confident now than I ever have been. I am 52. When I was in my prime dating years I was very unlikely to approach. I am primary 8 enneatype but secondary 4. I was much more proud chasee than chaser. That was horrible as a man. It cost me so many many amazing women in terms of ... I'll never know.

    After about age 35 I gained the standing confidence and serious 'let's see what happens next' attitude that is the calling card of a typical ENTP. I never lost my uncanny knack for saying precisely the wrong thing to irritate and offend mainstream robots, so, I now approach a lot more women and still offend them, but, in approaching, I unleash potential. I can quickly identify women that are offended and intrigued or just intrigued. That is the great game.

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    Depends on the kind of attraction. If I am attracted to someone by looks alone, chances are I won't, unless it's late at night and there's a big group of people and I'm feeling a little brave. If I am attracted to someone by their humour, I'm zipping over to talk. Same with if I'm attracted to their personality/other.

    If I am attracted to someone who I have not quite yet officially met, I kind of watch from afar and gather what I can about them. If they appear to be someone I think I would get along with, I approach them first.

    I've also got pretty good at picking out those who also despise pointless small talk and would rather just have a long conversation with some sort of meaning behind it; whether the attraction is just friendly or romantic doesn't matter; chances are I'm walking up to them and striking up a conversation.

    And now I'm being an ENTP and elaborating on shit buttt that's how it is sometimes
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    I become either very passive or very aggressive. Nothing in between.
    Basically it is an effort to approach someone, so unless I really want to (not the kind of two or three months crush I usually have), I would not bother because it will pass anyway.
    But when I am really motivated, I only know to do it as if I've done it several times. Sometimes confidence covers up my lack of experience.
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    If the assumption here is that I have never spoken with them previously then the attractiveness has nothing to do with whether I talk to them or not. There are entirely too many attractive people wandering around for me to go worrying about how good looking I think the person is. If I did that I’d spend half my life in some state of social anxiety. Fuck that, they’re still just people.
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    I personally adapt to the person so it depends on them. Usually i'll approach introverts more often and sometimes let extroverts approach me. I guess i do usually get to the point of where i don't care to wait around for someone so i'll get direct.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Haldir View Post
    If the assumption here is that I have never spoken with them previously then the attractiveness has nothing to do with whether I talk to them or not. There are entirely too many attractive people wandering around for me to go worrying about how good looking I think the person is. If I did that I’d spend half my life in some state of social anxiety. Fuck that, they’re still just people.
    Since when do you post here? ;)

    To answer OP: I approach more now than I ever have before. I used to never, I was a pretty socially anxious person. Now though.... forget it. LoL
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    Quote Originally Posted by Desthro View Post
    Since when do you post here? ;)
    Since I overcame my anxiety about how irresistibly attractive you are!
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    Its like with any other person for me, just more interesting and more of a "mind game". I will aproach and start checking the field with questions or talking about my viewpoints. Ill change the subject however i see het to be interested. Ill use humor (maybe too much).
    And i will show too much ego in those interactions.
    If it goes well we are going to get deep and thats what i like.

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    well I will test them if they like me back I will approach them

    I will make this person notice me,I will show them how awesome and amazing I am and if they like me back I will confess to them,if not I will move on


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