Hi there! I'm a female INFJ, and I am completely new to this site. I just wanted some insights from ENTPs about this one ENTP who I have feelings for and have been trying to decide if he reciprocates these feelings. I'm sorry if this is a bit long, but here it goes.
I got to spend 4 days with this ENTP guy who is a friend of my brother. This ENTP came and stayed at my house over Thanksgiving break, and I didn't know him whatsoever up to that point. Long story short, within 2 hours of him arriving at my house we got into a lengthy debate about whether or not cats constitute real pets, and by the end of it I was completely smitten by his ability to debate so intellectually on something so stupid. Witty banter is one of the biggest turn ons for me, and he totally dominated at it.
So it turned out that he and I have tons in common -- both middle children, both home schooled, both sing and play piano, and he's currently studying music in Nashville while I'm just about to begin studying music at college myself. All of our interactions after that first evening involved playful banter about something or another -- with him frequently making fun of me/being sarcastic towards me. We even debated for 10 minutes about this metal spring he'd accidentally knocked to the ground after I'd put it on a desk, with him saying it was my fault for putting it there in the first place. At one point he sat and played our piano and we sang 'I'll be home for Christmas' together, and then we talked about music for a while and he said he admired a decision I'd made regarding practicing music for a while before applying to college.
All this to say, on his last day with us we were debating something dumb once again when someone called him away, and he stood up and said 'Okay, enough weird flirting!' and walked off, and then came back a few minutes later only to start trolling me just like before. He even got me to play this weird game with him involving connecting dots....anyway, he sent me a friend request on facebook before he left to go back to Nashville, and he hugged me twice when saying goodbye to everyone...I'm wondering, does it sound like he reciprocates my feelings, and if so, would it be worth it to try contacting him on facebook to see if anything will come of it? Thank you in advance, and once again I'm sorry that this was so long!