ENTP's, how do you deal with people who think you are too spontaneous, free-wheeling, or inconsistent? Even if I tell someone I'll meet them tomorrow at noon, when the time arrives I often have something else that I'd rather do. I realize there's a selfish element to this, so I'm very careful when telling people that I'll do something. If I tell them I will, then I try really hard to follow through. Many people see this as selfish/unreliable, etc...and I get where they're coming from...but I see them as not truly understanding what spontaneity is. They seem so locked in, rigid, and unwilling to make allowances for individuality/different ways of thinking. I think Ne naturally wants to make decisions "as we go", but not far in advance. It tends to not be very conducive to a schedule.
What do you guys think about this? Do you just think, "It's just who I am...if you don't like it, too bad"? Or do you see it as an area that you need to improve?