Love Types: ESFJ - Page 6

Love Types: ESFJ

Hello Guest! Sign up to join the discussion below...
Page 6 of 6 FirstFirst ... 4 5 6
Results 51 to 59 of 59
Thank Tree61Thanks

This is a discussion on Love Types: ESFJ within the ESFJ Articles forums, part of the ESFJ Forum - The Caregivers category; Originally Posted by Lady K SFJ's are not boring, you just have to find the right one. Just because we're ...

  1. #51
    INFJ - The Protectors

    Quote Originally Posted by Lady K View Post
    SFJ's are not boring, you just have to find the right one. Just because we're doormats doesn't mean we don't have a sense of humor. Don't judge all by one please. :)
    You aren't doormats, you are teddybears! All the ESFJ's I have met are awesome. The temper thing, well, no body is perfect. My family are ESTJ and they EXHAUST me. At least ESFJ's have a sense of humor. HUGS to all ESFJ's.
    lenabelle, Zombie Devil Duckie, temp and 16 others thanked this post.

  2. #52
    Unknown Personality

    Quote Originally Posted by cyamitide View Post
    These are recommended matches for ISTJ according to Socionics.

    ESFJ +

    Attractive relations:
    + INTP - Duality description is under LII-ESE
    + ENTP - Activity Relations
    + ISTP - Semi-duality Relations
    + INFP - Mirage relations
    + ENFP - Benefit relations where ESFJ is benefactor and ENFP is beneficiary
    + ESTP - Benefit relations where ESTP is benefactor and ESFJ is beneficiary

    Medium level relations:
    + ISFP - Extinguishment Relations
    + ISFJ - Mirror Relations
    + ENFJ - Kindred Relations
    + ESTJ - Business Relations
    + ESFP - Quasi-identical Relations
    + ESFJ - Identity Relations

    Difficult relations:
    + INTJ - Conflict Relations
    + ENTJ - Superego relations
    + INFJ - Supervision-relations where INFJ is supervisor and ESFJ is supervisee
    + ISTJ - Supervision-relations where ESFJ is supervisor and ISTJ is supervisee

    These compatibilities are based on correspondence in cognitive functions: you and your romantic partner will find it easier to understand each other if your jungian types have all or at least some of the cognitive functions in common.

    Profiles of erotic attitudes.

    Jungian type is not the only factor that influences compatibility. Enneagram type and instinctual stackings also hold their sway.
    Quote Originally Posted by septemberdawn View Post
    I know that is what is reported but I hope they are not always right. I'm INFJ and I love ESFJ. It sometimes takes effort for me to word things properly for us to be on the same page but it's worth it. I say exactly how I feel, he finds that harsh. He says how he feels in a round about way and I get confused. But holy crap is he sexy and funny and loving and yummy. I'm in love, I can't help it, it's true. I have never ever felt this way before in my life!!! I know what the songs and poems and movies are about now. He looks in my eyes and I shiver...
    All the best to you! Hope it works out for you guys. All these type matches are only general and vague trends. I think a lot still depends on the two people in the relationship.

  3. #53
    ISTJ - The Duty Fulfillers

    Socionics is BS!

    For ESFJ, best match is ISFP.
    iemanja and brittauzenne thanked this post.

  4. Remove Advertisements
    PersonalityCafe.com
    Advertisements
     

  5. #54
    ESFJ - The Caregivers

    I've always been drawn to the introverted level-headed types with a sense of humor. I never seem to come across ISTPs, but their character is usually appealing to me. Aside from that I constantly am drawn to INTPs.

    Also the versatility of pairings in this thread pretty much shows that any two people can find compatibility in each other despite recommended pairings. Usually I would think that S/N differences might cause some disconnect, but I suppose that would require factors of compatibility outside of typology to decide what works and what doesn't.
    temp thanked this post.

  6. #55
    Unknown Personality

    There are now facebook groups open for each dual pair of types: ESFJ - INTP facebook group

    video about dual experiences:


  7. #56

    Quote Originally Posted by CMFlex View Post
    I'm an INTP. i have been dating a n ESFJ for over a year now, and I couldn't be happier. Most of this "I'm being taken for granted" problem comes from a basic misunderstanding. Your significant other does not understand your needs. An ESFJ need attention and complements and to feel needed. As an INTP I need none of those, (or at least not in the massive doses others might.) My girlfriend and I had to set out some rules.
    1.) I (an INTP) will try my hardest to tell you what my feelings are.You (an ESFJ) will not harass me about them, because honestly, I don't really understand them and ignore them most of the time.
    2.) You will tell me if I am being insensitive to the point of rudeness.
    3.) I need my alone time. Just let me be for a couple of days, but do remind me if I forget to eat. I get very preoccupied.
    4.) I always care about you, no matter what you may perceive. If that changes I will tell you.
    5.) Subtle hints are invisible to me; think bigger.
    Ha, sounds very familiar to me and my INTP boyfriend. I'm very direct to him. Sometimes I can tell if he isn't getting it... subtle hints don't work well. I just tell him to say that he loves me sometimes and to work on being affectionate. He's been improving, but it's taken quite a bit of time -- sometimes he can be very in the moment.

    I have yelled at him for being stupid and grouchy. About 15 minutes later he apologizes, but then I do too, because I was also likely grouchy as well.

    Alone time... unforunately yes. I like being with others, but sometimes just alone time with computers help us both. He watches things, programs, etc, and I screw around on forums.

    This is really spot on what goes on in the ENFP and INTP relationship that can work. We've been living together for 3 years already. :)

  8. #57

    Quote Originally Posted by palegreensun View Post
    I feel like the enfp is made for the esfj.
    ENFP can act as the sort of champion representative for the ESFJ party.
    The enfp knight in esfj court.

    If esfj organized a Twister party, the enfp would say "alright, guys, it's Twister time."

    Also, they seem to have a natural inclination to balance and help each other:

    Where the esfj is much more organized in their thoughts, the enfp's intuition might help pick up certain things that the other didn't see immediately.

    With the enfp's sensitivity, they would respect and appreciate the esfj's warm and nurturing qualities, while the latter would respect the enfp's boldness and attention to others.

    With enfp's more amorphous sense of perception, it is comforting in times of doubt for them to see a more structured sense of the world, and vice versa.

    This pair would make for a very interesting and multi-facetted parenting style as well.

    Ultimately, they make a nurturing, expressive, bold, and challenging pair, AS LONG as they maintained a very open and costructive means of communication, a trait that comes naturally to both types.
    I love this. I love this so much. Bwhahahaha... it's a positive thing.

    It's pretty true... although, to be honest, I don't see my esfj friend organizing a Twister party anytime soon... too bad.

    I think it also has to do if there's a formal relation in place to facilitate the balance and help... or it seems to exaggerate it. Anyways, I think that my intuitiveness has helped him see something in a different way and I felt really listened to from it. He said I was very insightful person and he was too endearing to me... extremely warm personality. Seemed very genuine, however.

  9. #58
    Unknown Personality

    Quote Originally Posted by Thracius View Post
    I confirm the OP from experience, ESFJ girls want traditionalists, marriage, longterm relationships and GOD are they boring
    Why are you in the sfj forums if we're so boring :U. Hope you didn't come here just to be insulting. I'm just curious what made you roam into the 'boring' forum? Sorry not all types perfer to jump through hoops like obedient circus monkies just to entertain people who are generally self entitled, and demand that others be intresting to, sorry I'm not HBO or Cartoon Network. I've come across infjs and that type isn't the most 'excting' either.

  10. #59
    INFJ

    Quote Originally Posted by cyamitide View Post
    These are recommended matches for ISTJ according to Socionics.

    ESFJ +

    Attractive relations:
    + INTP - Duality description is under LII-ESE
    + ENTP - Activity Relations
    + ISTP - Semi-duality Relations
    + INFP - Mirage relations
    + ENFP - Benefit relations where ESFJ is benefactor and ENFP is beneficiary
    + ESTP - Benefit relations where ESTP is benefactor and ESFJ is beneficiary

    Medium level relations:
    + ISFP - Extinguishment Relations
    + ISFJ - Mirror Relations
    + ENFJ - Kindred Relations
    + ESTJ - Business Relations
    + ESFP - Quasi-identical Relations
    + ESFJ - Identity Relations

    Difficult relations:
    + INTJ - Conflict Relations
    + ENTJ - Superego relations
    + INFJ - Supervision-relations where INFJ is supervisor and ESFJ is supervisee
    + ISTJ - Supervision-relations where ESFJ is supervisor and ISTJ is supervisee

    These compatibilities are based on correspondence in cognitive functions: you and your romantic partner will find it easier to understand each other if your jungian types have all or at least some of the cognitive functions in common.

    Profiles of erotic attitudes.

    Jungian type is not the only factor that influences compatibility. Enneagram type and instinctual stackings also hold their sway.
    There is also an LII-ESE facebook socionics duality group (types ESFJ and INTP) for anyone interested in discussing relationships in this type of pairing.


     
Page 6 of 6 FirstFirst ... 4 5 6

Similar Threads

  1. Love Types: ISFJ
    By Mystic Jenn in forum ISFJ Articles
    Replies: 49
    Last Post: 05-03-2018, 01:05 PM
  2. Love Types: ESTJ
    By Mystic Jenn in forum ESTJ Articles
    Replies: 25
    Last Post: 01-11-2018, 02:36 PM
  3. Love Types: ISTJ
    By Mystic Jenn in forum ISTJ Articles
    Replies: 74
    Last Post: 04-18-2017, 08:12 AM
  4. Love Types: INTP
    By Mystic Jenn in forum INTP Articles
    Replies: 196
    Last Post: 03-10-2017, 12:36 AM
  5. Love Types: ENTP
    By Mystic Jenn in forum ENTP Articles
    Replies: 103
    Last Post: 09-05-2015, 12:23 AM

Tags for this Thread

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
All times are GMT -7. The time now is 05:00 AM.
Information provided on the site is meant to complement and not replace any advice or information from a health professional.
© 2014 PersonalityCafe
 

SEO by vBSEO 3.6.0